2006-10-22 10:29:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My 1st time didn't but i was totally relaxed and knew it was the right time. re the bleeding factor i didn't unless wait did i really do it.... everyone says you bleed i didn't but i have two children mmm i must just be one of the lucky ones...
but like a previous answer if your wet/lubricate well then it will ease it somewhat
2006-10-22 10:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on numerous factors. Such as what kind of feminine hygeine products you have used, if you have used tampons then the likely hood is that the opening to your cervix has already gone. Other factors are how turned on you are, if you're not that "wet" then you should use a lubricant (this will help the guy go "in" more easily), also how relaxed you are, if you are tense then it's not gonna be easy. It's not as scary as people make it out to be, it's also not as wonderful. My first time wasn't sore at all but it was a big disapointment! As long as your are relaxed and you really like the guy then it will go smoothly.
2006-10-22 10:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by miyazaki_babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no real correct answer for this question because everyone has a different pain threshold. Different people can tolerate pain in different ways, or perceive pain differently than others. It also depends on the body type of the woman, and size of the man. If he is gentle and takes his time, it is different than if he is just trying to get himself inside.
The only way is experience. I think initial penetration is painful, but whether or not the entire experience is painful is dictated by the above factors. I remember it feeling painful at first, but moreso uncomfortable. It was an uncomfortable feeling. I think it was more painful afterwards than the actual act.
2006-10-22 10:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it hurts for most girls but don't let this put you off as the more you do it the better it gets if hes a gent he will take it easy and consider you but if he doesn't tell him don't do it just for him make sure your ready
2006-10-23 02:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by 3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. That is when the tissue breaks and it is painful and it bleeds. Don't worry, its just the first time only and then its good.
Good luck
2006-10-22 10:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yet a little stingy a bit like a papercut then hey presto it is fantastic after that!!!!!!! You will never remember that little pain when you have loadsa nights of 69's, handcuffs, oral sex, bouncing all night sex, man on top. . . . . . . . . . . . . .promise you its worth it!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xx
2006-10-23 05:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by Very Sexy Vixen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not if you're ready for it.
2006-10-23 23:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋