I have a dilemma. I was in a relationship a year ago with a guy who was alredy involved . We were very much attracted to ourselves. But it was wrong timing. I was also and still involve with someone too.We let each other go cause it got too intense. And with our significant other's we were being transparent with our feelings for the other person. We were even deciding to just leave everybody behind and just dissapeare. But before that happend, we both decided just to break it off and try to work out our real problems with our marriages that led to these affairs. So a year has passed by I got on with my life so did he. Twice I bumped into to him and believe me it was aqkuard. We would both stare at each other and not say a word but in our eyes we said alot.
. So what did I do? I went to his work and I left him a letter., with my number. It took a week for him to call and he did. So now he wants to know why and if am ready to see him again? I want to say yes, I just cant 4get him!
2006-10-22 10:29:01 · 17 answers · asked by alwaysbettathanyou 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Either yuo both lose yuor marriages or you stop makeing arrangements ot see each other, and above don't call or leave messages athis work which will get back to your family.
There is no other way. If you talk with your husband and decides to seperate how do you know ghe will do the same.
Personally I would say just meet once, screw each others brains out and go home and forget it; If you can. (that's what we did). I still couldn't forget it even after 20 yrs but but we both agreed to let it go. I am still married to the same woman and haven't seen her in 20 yrs. But you are right it's there still.
Good luck:)
2006-10-22 10:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have left him alone. You have already had an affair with him. You stopped so you could work out the problems in your marriage. Why would you want to go and do the same thing all over again? Isn't the guilt of you cheating the first time eating away at you??? Why do that to yourself and to your marriage again? You really made a mistake by leaving him a letter.
2006-10-22 12:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stated "the writers must have had some concept of what they were writing on the time". that's an unsupported statement. Why ought to we predict that? till you propose that they knew they were writing fiction and passing it off as prophecy, then there would properly be some advantage to it. . Edit: i love solutions like "because each and every of the animals were herbivores then". that's a prima facie actuality assisting evolution, coming from a believer. Gotta like it. though i think they are going to easily imagine: properly, God made some better carnivores and placed them in the international. yet the position contained in the scriptures does it say *that*?
2016-10-16 05:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by latassa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have already proven that you have the capacity to be a scandalous cheating wife (which is sexy when you are a single guy like me!!) so I say go ahead and destroy your husband and family and allow him to do the same to his wife and family. Then you two can shag and shack up and live in sexual bliss knowing that you both are very selfish and have single handedly destroyed innocent people. Bravo for you lady.
Keep going, us single guys love you dissatisfied wives!
2006-10-22 10:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by dumb guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he still with his wife and or you still with your husband?
If so you need to end it with him and him with her before the both of you move on with each other. Life is to short not to be happy. So if he makes you happy go for it.
Good Luck.
2006-10-22 10:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by Debbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were very much attracted to yourselves? Huh? I think you two should definitely get married. He'll have a wife that cheats on husbands and you'll have a husband that cheats on wives and your ex-spouses will have dumped you two losers.
2006-10-22 10:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by Debra D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your significant other was having an affair how do you think you would feel? How do you think their s.o. would feel? If you did not like how you felt the last time what makes you think it will be any different this time? Don't do it!
2006-10-22 10:33:59 · answer #7 · answered by jdnmsedsacrasac1 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are no longer married, do whatever you want! But seriously, don't do that to your husband. It isn't fair, it's wrong, it's hurtful, it's deceitful, and the vows you spoke at your wedding were not supposed to be hollow words.
2006-10-22 10:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You both should be free and clear of any other relationships before you resume.
2006-10-22 10:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to go ahead and get your divorce started.
2006-10-22 10:39:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋