2006-10-22 10:27:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I'm a bloke - now approaching fifty years of age, and happily married, so I suppose my days of deflowering virgins are over.
Outside of my thrustings whilst still a schoolboy, I did deflower three ladies when I was in my twenties. One of the ladies was thirty-five!
Much of the pain involved in first penetration can be avoided if the man is sensitive to the occasion. Good foreplay will stimulate the flowing of the female juices, particularly foreplay around the entrance to the vagina, as this stimulates the outpouring of the Bartholin glands, and thus lubricates the labia as well as the vagina itself. I also encouraged the women, immediately prior to penetration, to coat my penis in ky jelly (this was in the days before AIDS mandated the wearing of a condom in new sexual encounters). The ky added to the lubrication, and the women enjoyed applying it!
Today, it would be worth a woman asking her doctor or pharmacist if there is a gel that can be appiled over a condom, without ruining its protective function. If she is a virgin, but wishes to lose this status, then she should carry the gel, and condoms, at all times, and insist that the bloke uses them - before things get too steamy (us guys do tend to abandon all care when aroused - so agree a course of action before the action becomes intercourse!)
For the blokes out there, treat your virgin with the utmost consideration. Us guys cannot wait to get it off, ladies can be somewhat different, and the loss of the hymen to a lady is a much more important event, psychologically, than our first spurt into an enclosed space. (remember, blokes, that first ejaculation from the first succesful **** - women don't have this privilege). Bew gentle, be loving, and be there with the lubricants and go easy, oh so easy.
2006-10-22 10:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it does hurt but for some people it cna be alot other it cant but for me it was poain but one that i could cope with and it can hurt for the first few times but when uve ogtta over that its all fun....also i girl can bleed after which is when her cherry pops it will only be a lil bit of blood but dont worry about it as its only a small amount and only really happenes the once..
debs
2006-10-22 17:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by Debwa L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It shouldnt hurt but some women do find it uncomfortable.... If it does hurt dont worry toomuch... go to see your gp... dont worry there is nothing to be concerned about... its just some women do find it a bit unpleasent!!!
Good Luck and rember a womans best friend in s*x is lube!!!
2006-10-23 09:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by Cat ( " , ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience yes a little but it only last about a minute or so. Your opening is kinda forced to expand bigger, and you'll feel some discomfort or pressure. but after a minute or two it goes away. e-mail me if you ahve any other questions or concerns
2006-10-22 17:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by Brit 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't feel as good the first time. But why do you want to loose it? I hope you are not young, wait until you are at least 18 and know what you want in life!
2006-10-22 17:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by Kelley C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it did quite a bit for me. It took several attempts for my then bf to penetrate me, but on a good note, he is now my husband ; )
2006-10-22 17:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on your attitude, how relaxed you are, and how careful your partner is. If you're not physically or emotionally ready for sex and you're tense, it will hurt more.
2006-10-22 17:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is different for every girl...didnt hurt for me...just depends..
2006-10-22 17:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by lucky_sweet_cute 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it hurt me to thing, the lucky b-----d.
have a goooooood night.
p.s. hide his fags
2006-10-22 17:32:20 · answer #9 · answered by JOLOPY 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it depends on you .. and him...
2006-10-22 17:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋