I just recieved an anonymous letter telling me not to take my ex back and showing me messages of other girls hitting on him. I am not even sure if the messages came from his account. The person is trying to convince me that my ex won't be faithful to me and wasn't faithful to me when we were together. The only "proof" they have are messages in the last few weeks of girls talking dirty to him. They claim to be able to get email messages to prove he wasn't faithful in the first place. He says its all lies. Do I believe him or do I believe the anonymous person?
2006-10-22 10:06:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
So this is probably some girl who wants him? One of the messages indicates that he has had sex with one of these girls in the last few weeks. (It gives details.) Also, other people in his family say that he has had sex with this girl. Some people in his family even say the she was his cousin. At the time they say it happened, he was on a family cruise with his best friend, who I know he slept with, but broke it off with her in the last few days. He says he wants me back and that he didn't sleep with anyone but his best friend. What do I do? Do you think the anonymous letter is from his best friend?
2006-10-22 10:36:51 · update #1
i think who ever it is already has a thing for him and wants you out of the picture so she can have him all to herself...i would not make any assumptions yet i would have a heart to heart talk with your ex...oviosly he mention to someone he wants you back and maybe mentioned he wouldnt go out with her because he still has feelings for you..she is just jealous and feels a threat with you in the pitchure,,i would give him tjhe benefit of the dout...sounds like he still loves you..or else you wouldnt be getting letters from strangers who dont want you two back together... good luck!
2006-10-22 10:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by mary c 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok these kind of things don't just happen. That is weird, keep you eyes open! It is good that you asked him about it. But if you know him to be a liar, and you have any ounce of feeling that this is true, trust your instincts and get yourself out of that relationship. Someone may be doing you a favor.
*he might have had an afair, broke up with her, she may have access to his e-mail account. Otherwise why would someone do that?
2006-10-22 10:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by turkey killer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems as though this person really cares about you and doesn't want to see you get hurt. I think they either have romantic feelings towards you or simply care about your well being. I would take their advice and not get back with your ex, especially if your ex was the one who broke up with you.
2006-10-22 10:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by Ash 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is your anonymous letter writer more honest than your boyfriend?
You don't know?
Then trust your boyfriend, girls can hit on him,( your letterwriter maybe?) but he may not have been batting back. Or if he did it may have been only breakup sex
2006-10-22 10:14:15 · answer #4 · answered by justa 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its hard question! i think he is an EX for a reason.you should fallow your heart.only you know the true if you have a little specious he is not right do it now than later.
2006-10-22 10:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jazzy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your ex, why do you care? The person can only get access to the e-mail if they had his password.
2006-10-22 10:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by lobo 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you dont trust him there is no relationship -- why would you believe anoymous letters???
if they cant identify themselves they are trying to cause problems for whatever reason
2006-10-22 10:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he's your ex.. you shouldn't even be thinking about taking him back.. you broke up for a reason right?
2006-10-22 10:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by KK 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That person sounds like she's slept with him already.
2006-10-22 10:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
hes your ex why does it matter you need to move on and find something better in life
2006-10-22 10:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋