*She always tries to shaparone the parties I go to
*She says going to the mall with just friends and not her is too dangerous
2006-10-22 10:06:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It depends how old you are and how responsible you are. Your mother is likely being protective. You need to persuade her that you are responsible enough to be able to go out on your own from time to time. Always stick to a plan and make sure to arrive home at the time you say you will.
2006-10-22 10:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start doing some rather mature things -- if you are faced with a tricky decision, take the more mature option.
Do this for a month or so and be sure to tell your mom about what happens in a casual sort of way. If your friends are doing stupid things, tell your mom about them and tell her how you didn't take part and thought it was sort-of dumb.
If she sees that you really do have good judgement and can act more grown-up she will start to trust you more. The trick is that you really actually have to practice having good judgement, because if you mess up, you're going to go right back to where you started or worse.
I promise you, if you can do this, it will help your relationship with her for the rest of your life -- she sounds overprotective and parents can continue to be that way until you're a grown adult!
2006-10-22 10:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by intotrashmail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don just yell at your mother but have an intimate talk with her and sort things out. And how old your really are? Do not underestimate how preplanned and unexpected sexual offenders are. They can sweep you right off your front door.
Go through this site. this might make you more cautious. A site that keeps track of sexual offenders. The site can show you if there is anybody in your locality.
http://www.familywatchdog.us/
2006-10-22 10:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your right in the situation i was in till i told my mom that i had a life probably that what you need to do talk to her and tell her that you have a life.. but also whatever you do don't get in to it with her because shes you mom she knows best
2006-10-22 10:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by gorda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the other kids parents are there she wont need to go there...Let her talk to them first on the phone OK? Daytime mallshopping is safe...be home before sundown Try these ideas ok?
2006-10-22 10:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to get away from your mom,talk to her about it.If that doesn't seem to work,ask your friends what they would do, and try that.
2006-10-22 10:14:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO DOES MY MOM AND I HATE HER FOR THAT! all u do is take controll... tell her that your growing up and for her to get over it! thts what i say to mine!
2006-10-22 10:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her back off or you'll never talk to her again.
2006-10-22 10:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by Marionette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt put your age on here so mother may have good reason
2006-10-22 10:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋