My friend had to move back home due to financially reasons. Her divorced dad made a pass at me twice. Now I do not like visiting her but I don’t want to tell her the REAL reason why.
We are both adult women and if it was anyone else besides her father, I would tell her.
2006-10-22 09:46:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I assumed when I said, “we are both adult women” it would imply that I have spoken to him about it. For those who need things spell out I have spoken to him about it in very clear concise words, but the behavior hasn’t cease.
2006-10-22 10:01:37 · update #1
If she is your friend you can tell her in a tactful manner. I had a situation like this a long time ago. NO one likes to hear it, but chances are she is already aware of how her father is. Trust your gut feeling, and don't let him ruin your relationship.
2006-10-22 09:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by Sage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that due to very sensitive reasons you won't be coming to see her at her fathers house anymore and if she asks why then take her somewhere and explain in a very tactful way what her father did and that you are uncomfortable with it.
2006-10-22 16:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by Trinity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend to visit you instead (without her father) or go out somewhere like to a restaurant.
2006-10-22 16:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are an adult woman you would handle your business by telling her dad you are not interested and not involve her and not stop going to see her.
2006-10-22 16:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your friend that you saw her dad in a gay bar! ha ha ha ha
2006-10-22 16:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell her the truth. remember: friends tell the whole truth
2006-10-22 16:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend about what happened.
2006-10-22 16:49:52 · answer #7 · answered by Britters 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ivite her over your place dont go over there anymore unless you bring one of your guy freinds, if he trys anything call the cops
2006-10-22 16:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her. Friends stick together no matter what...
2006-10-22 16:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth
2006-10-22 16:52:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋