2006-10-22 09:45:44 · 11 answers · asked by shannon l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Go find yourself another victim.......
2006-10-22 09:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First be real with yourself and with him.
Then ask what it is exactly that you don't like about yourself.
Then ask how much of it has to do with him.
If you are obsessing, maybe he has something you want and would like. Then again maybe not. Maybe try to figure it out. To get anywhere near the truth, probably face to face is best. This place is to anonymous. People could just say , hey it wasn't me and deny everything here. There is some safety in that, but, even a phone conversation means much more cuz its more real.
2006-10-22 16:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgetting anyone that you have commited to it a very hard task, I still think of my ex and we dated at least over two year's ago, what I suggest you not do is go out and replace them right away ,because you will find yourself comparing and contrasting them with each other, then end up hurting yourself even more. I do suggest just thinking of your ex as an experiance you have learned from and just find things to do, hang out with friends, go out and have fun, enjoy the single life, dont forget the memories basiclly because sooner or later you will find someone better. Just have fun and enjoy life.
2006-10-22 16:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by Marjorie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok the same thing happend to me...lol what I did was starting to meet other people it will hurt for awhile...even if you meet someone else you might still have feelings for him but don't let them get to you and take the best side of you. I understand. Stay friends with him and just try to move on. Get involved in other activities have a friends night out with your friends.
2006-10-22 16:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to admit that I am in the same boat as you and I still love my ex-boyfriend more than anything. But I do believe that one day someone will come into my life and sweep me off my feet. So just go out and meet other people and you will meet someone just as good.
2006-10-22 16:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by sprtsnj89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the hardest things in my life for me was getting over my x girl friend. it took me months to even think about anything else. I think one way to get over it is to find something u can use to distract yourself. Go to a movie with just your girl friends. Join a club at your school. anything. just try not to stress out over it. But what i think is the best solution is to replace that relationship and fill that hole in your heart. but not with another bf. im talking about a deeper relationship- one that can effect your whole life. Get a relationship with Jesus. He has helped my life in so many drastic ways. i know he can help u too if u ask him. He WANTS to help u.
2006-10-22 16:54:37 · answer #6 · answered by johnpsager 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest reading the book "The Confident Woman" by Joyce Myer
2006-10-22 16:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you all ready took the first step.....admitting &willing to change.but keep telling your self it over dont give him the power....go out meet people....read a book about how to improve on your self steem.....iam sure you will be fine!
2006-10-22 17:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by Jazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MEET OTHER GUYS
party have fun flirt
it worked for me
2006-10-22 16:46:46 · answer #9 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find things to occupy yourself. eventually you will get over it.
2006-10-22 16:47:52 · answer #10 · answered by jdc591 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get involved with something
2006-10-22 16:47:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋