2006-10-22 09:39:42 · 29 answers · asked by beannka horton 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yep... Tell your mom so she can take you to a gynechologist. I suggest you start on birth control pills before you get pregnant and become another statistic......
2006-10-22 09:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so your 14 and have had sex.
Apart from the phsycological side of things (ie, how young!!!) this doesn't have to be a big deal as long as you were practicing safe sex.
If you weren't safe then you need to get to the docs for a check for both pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases asap.Just cos you cant tell anything is wrong doesn't mean there isnt, (don't panic-chances are your clear and not pregnant if your not at it like a rabbit! you DO need to confirm this though!!) Remember safe sex next time!
It concerns me that you dont seem to have the support of your partner or feel happy confiding in your parents. I think if I were you I would confide in your mum or even an aunt who will be there to give you a hug-you sound like you need one. Good luck with this and remember, its not the end of the world to get into trouble-ending up with an unwanted baby could be!
2006-10-22 09:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by desperate housewife!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is safe to do so, go to your parents first but make sure that you go to the doctor as soon as possible regardless.
As you did not reveal gender, I will split my answer here. First, if you are male you CAN get sexually transmitted diseases, which untreated can kill you. HIV kills anyway, so I hope you didn't get that one.
If you are female, the same thing applies, but you also need to track your menstruation and find out if you are pregnant, which is a whole new ball game. If so, my recommendation is to avoid abortion at all costs -- there are plenty of good families that will help you through it and adoption is a better option that you don't have to regret the rest of your life.
Finally, a word of advice.... assume that a sexual partner has had sex with 5, 10, or 100 people prior to your encounter(s). In terms of disease risk it is like you have had sex with ALL OF THEM as well, so I encourage you to ABSTAIN. It may save your life.
2006-10-22 09:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by HeartSpeaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you think they'll react. If you're 14 and having sex, something is wrong in the first place with your communication with your parents. Definitely get to the doctor though for birth control!!!! (from the voice of experience)
2006-10-22 09:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by queenie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely tell your parents! And go to the doctor. I'm sorry it had to happen for you this way, what with you being so young and all. At least you're being responsible about it, including talking to your parents and seeing a doctor. That shows maturity.
2006-10-22 09:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by fruitnroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on a few things. What are you going to the doctor for? Do you think you are pregnant? Are you having feminine difficulties? Do you have a good relationship with your parents? If you don't need to tell them, I wouldn't. Unless you have really good parents that are loving and understanding. Then I would.
2006-10-22 09:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your decision. It doesn't say if you used safe sex so im wondering if thats why your going to the doctor. If you think you are pregnant you should let your parents know. But be sure to remember it's your choice if you want to keep the baby.
2006-10-22 09:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by 2007fjr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am just a little confused. Why are you going to the doctor? Was it unprotected? Not consensual? It sounds like you need support, so start with you mom and see what she says. But if all you did was have sex and it was safe and you are not in any danger, you may not need to go to a doctor.
2006-10-22 09:44:17 · answer #8 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, first of all, you are MUCH too young to be having sex. It's actually called statutory rape at your age. That's because you are still a child. You should be playing with Barbie dolls not with penises. By all means, stop what you are doing and live out the rest of your childhood. When it's gone it's gone. You don't get a 2nd chance to be a kid. And by all means go to the doctor!
2006-10-22 09:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you ready to raise a child financially and maturity wise for the next 20 years?
Are you prepared to get a sexually transimitted disease that may make you unable to bear children one day?
14 is way too young for sex, every time you have intercourse with somebody, there is a soul tie with this person.
2006-10-22 10:23:27 · answer #10 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋