help! she uses it, so why cant i? im thirteen neway!!!
2006-10-22 09:37:47 · 42 answers · asked by cat luver 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
You need to sit down and have a serious talk with your mom about why she doesn't want to let you wear deodorant. You're at an age where you need to use it, however she may be in denial that you're growing up.
If after talking to her she still won't buy you any, get a few dollars and head to the store. Buy an UNSCENTED type (otherwise your mom will definitely notice) and hide it in your room.
Not that you should have to hide things from your mother, but she's in denial, and you NEED deodorant.
2006-10-22 09:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by legallyblond2day 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She's got to be denying that you are growing up! Do you shave your pits? Do you need to? Regardless, if you have some B.O and she's not letting you use deoderant, then that's just mean. Just buy some at a store and start using it. If she finds out and yells at you, tell her the kids at school make fun of you for being smelly - then start crying. She's got to let you practice proper hygine!
2006-10-22 09:55:47 · answer #2 · answered by ShaMayMay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i think that you should approach your mom in a mature way and say "Mom, i am not a little girl anymore and I need to start using deodorant" and if she still says no then you should probably ask one of your friends if they could buy you one the next time they go to the store and then you could put it in your backpack and put it on after you've left your house. Good luck! : )
2006-10-22 09:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by the_smart_one33 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea why she wouldn't let you. My daughters 14 & she started using it years ago. It's not like you're asking for a nose piercing or something. Then again maybe if you ask for something outragous you can tell her you will compromise if she lets you use deodorant. Id like to know her reason. Good luck
2006-10-22 09:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her calmly that it is quite embarrassing and this is therefore quite upsetting for you. At thirteen the body can perspire and this could smell.
Maybe shes not seeing that you have grown up and are no longer a child or perhaps she doesn't want to let you grow up.
2006-10-22 09:56:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are 13, you definately need to use it! I would go buy some teen spirit deodorant and keep it hidden. The worse thing in this worse is for you to go to school and the boys smell your underarms!
2006-10-22 09:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by tyrawooley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom to ask a doctor when it is appropriate to start using deoterant. It's not like you want to get something pierced or anything. If that doesn't work, try leaving some in your locker at school or in you backpack.
2006-10-22 09:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
either buy with your money and take it to school and use it there . ,.
talk and ask her exactly why
tell her it is not fair or Right that she uses it and you cant
take the chance and tell her out right she is being UN fair to you
bringing your Dad into will only cause conflict between the three of you.
handle it with your mom only/
2006-10-22 09:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off maybe she doesn't think you are old enough. If you get lunch money and don't spend it all in the week or you get allowance just buy it then. It only cost about $4.
2006-10-22 09:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by meandyou4lif 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask your mom the reason why you should not be using the deodorant...u can use a baby cologne instead..johnson & johnson makes great baby colognes in 3 different scents
2006-10-22 10:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by shweta k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋