husbands mother is a mental women, sicko,,, calls protective services on her own son, step daughter, nephes. hates her own mother, and is now attaching me, makes threats says she has something on me and she will use it, i know she smokes weed and is a loon toon in the head. and my husband dont acknowlage her as his mother now of what she has done and is doing, we stay away, but if you say or do what she dont like she makes up lies and gets legal matters started and life hell. i have filled out a do not call on her for my number, and we are moving and never contacting her again. but what do i do about what ever it is she thinks she is going to do to me? the only thing she said is she saved some im's.. i dont recall any im's or i saying anything in one for use on me in a legal matter. what more to do, i want revenge from the last thing she has done. and what she is attempting to do now.
2006-10-22 09:28:45 · 5 answers · asked by brandifly69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There's a fair chance that she is bluffing honey. It sounds like a typical controlling mechanism to make you distressed and afraid.
You sound like you're handling things just fine actually. The best thing that you can do is to ignore her, never answer her calls and leave it there. She obviously craves this kind of attention and by supplying NONE you're winning the battle.
Forget about revenge - it will eat you up inside. Put the woman behind you for good and get on with your life. If she doesn't know where you live then her solicitor won't be able to contact you.
Close the door permanently. The worst thing that you can possibly do to her is to simply not respond. That's the ace in your cards. She sound terribly unhappy and more to be pittied that anything else. Remember that and put revenge out of your head.
Best of luck in the future
2006-10-22 09:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by lynch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are making good decisions so far, and I think the other suggestion that you call county mental health is a good idea. Keep in mind whatever dirt she may have on you may actually be dirt on somebody else and she is confused.
My ex's mom told us once that she had testicular cancer just to get attention. My ex almost died laughing and hung up on her.
2006-10-22 09:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by concretebrunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a TRO - Temporary Restraining Order
This can prevent her from calling, contacting, or coming within a certain distance of her.
Also, you might want to call your county health board to alert them of her "episodes".
Good luck!
2006-10-22 09:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try avoiding her at all costs. She sounds like trouble. Stay away from her, move out of town, chage your number...
2006-10-22 10:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move clear away from her...on the other side of the map!
2006-10-22 09:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋