iv been wit him for 5 yrs and for me to loose him its really hard his in critical conditions and im so sad i go visit him every day and i wish he would start talken to me and for him to open his eyes and for him to tell me he loves me ONE more time.
2006-10-22 09:28:05 · 18 answers · asked by jazmine a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
A dieing man once said: I maybe dieing,but i am surrounded by loving caring souls.How many people can say that.
I heard a little story the other day ,Morrie says. He closes his eyes for a momment and i wait.
"okay the story is about a little wave bobbing along in the ocean,haveing a grand old time. He is enjoying the wind and the fresh air until he notices the other waves infront of him,crashing against the shore.
"My god,this is terrible,the wave says. Look whats going to happen to me!!"
"Then along comes another wave. It sees the first wave, looking grim, and it says to him, Why do you look so sad?"
"The first wave says, You dont understan! We're all going to crash! All of us waves are going to be nothing! Isn't it terrible?'
"The second wave says, 'No, you don't understand. You're not a wave, you're part of the ocean.' "
2006-10-22 10:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a similar problem but the best thing to do is just to visit and pray that he will make and if he doesn't then it was just his time to go and you will be able to say no matter what i will always love you.
2006-10-22 16:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by sweets 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry your going threw this but you owe it to him and the love between you two to be strong and just do what your heart says is right and be thare if thats your choice and prey to God for a miracle and be ready to let him go if its his time but until then hold his hand so if he realizes anything your face will be thare to tell him you love him and this will be a tremendous uplift either way this goses plus his relatives will appreciate this in you . sometimes we lose the ones we love to death but love never dies and heals many wounds just have faith in God and stand ready for his will and in the end things will be alright . good luck
2006-10-22 16:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by sigmond 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG...What happened? Why is he in a comma? I'm so sorry. I will say a prayer for him! I wouldn't even know what to tell you in that particular situation but to hope and pray for the best! Take care.
2006-10-22 16:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by emt124 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep talking to him, he just might be listening, have read many accounts where people have recovered from serious injury because the heard a familiar voice, a prayer might also help.
2006-10-22 16:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by lobo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pray. Miracles happen every day. My sis was diagnosed with cancer two weeks ago and not expected to live, had surgery and there was no cancer! Doctors in shock. If this person does not recover give thanks you were blessed to have them with you while they were. I'm keepin' you and him in my prayers too.
2006-10-22 16:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by queenie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This may sound Yodaish, but it's true. You have to learn to let go. Sure you may weep and think of him from time to time, but make sure you can move on.
2006-10-22 16:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by All Geeked Up 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go see him. but while you do that try not to look all worried about him. cause it'll just make him feel bad. try to cheer him up. spend more time with him. make some precious memory.
2006-10-22 16:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by mi2z_myst3ry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray for him that's all you can do right now is pray. Ask god for help trust me he listens.
2006-10-22 16:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by Britters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get off the computer and get to him. what a waste of the last time you might have with him
2006-10-22 16:30:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋