the kind of girl that won't even kiss you, believes intimacy is nothing more than a word in the dictionary, has a death fetish of destroying or killing her mate, sells herself for cash and kicks, gives up her job and demands money for drugs, loves kids like myra hindley, extorts and blackmails, cheats, lies, laughs at your ex's miscarriage, has had group sex many times, racist, has a hobby of causing nervous breakdowns, asks to be hit durin sex, is into asphixiation, denies having a mental problem even after professional diagnosis, kills pets, and has had a relationship with a heroin addict, exposes herself in public, makes graphic accusations of paedophilia, and basically hates everything.
after that how would you feel?
2006-10-22 09:27:49 · 29 answers · asked by KU 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My GOD!!! thank goodness that never happened to me!!! ...dude i wish you all the best!..go out and you will find another girl that would love you more then life itself!good luck mate!
2006-10-22 09:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'd be feeling confused -- if what you say is true, your last girl had one or two problems - which would be putting it mildly. Any one of the things you have mentioned on their own would be ok, or understandable, - but to put them together paints a bit of a bleak picture. To laugh at your ex's miscarriage hints at an instability of her own - insecurity around wanting children - lots of people are into pervy sex (apparently) but if it's not consensual - and/or lots of group sex is involved, again I would say she was looking for attention and love in all the wrong places. Insecurity breeds insecurity. If what you say is true about having a professional diagnosis of a mental condition - then I would say that the symptoms do seem typical to me of one particular condition - i don't want to get into that, because it wouldn't be appropriate for me to guess - but do please email me if that is the case cos I have some experience of dealing with this - and it can be much harder for the other partner than the one suffering. Again, killing pets isn;t normal - it's a high thrill seeking - alternately low and high lifestyle - which takes its toll on those around. She probably isn;t even heartless - she's probably so confused and messed up she doesn;t know where her heart is. She needs help - hard as it is, try not to hate her, but understand that you are probably better off without her unless she is willing to make a real commitment to deal with her problems. Love and life is a ***** - good luck!
2006-10-22 16:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Behavin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I could fall in love with someone with even one of those traits unless they were a total master of deception and masked these deficiencies until I had fallen hook line and sinker. I have fallen in love with some real bas***ds but nothing quite as horrific as what you describe.
I hope this is just an example and not a true representation of someone who has broken your heart. I think an experience like that would make me give up on relationships and love on a permanent basis. For all the decent women out there I can only pray it hasn't had that impact on you and that your faith in women wont be tarnished by this experience.
I think after something like that I would doubt my own judgement in choosing a partner and probably get my trusted friends to vet any future ventures before I get too involved. Maybe use that description as a tick list of things that are a total no no.
Anyway... I am sure you will meet someone truly lovely one day so don't quit!
2006-10-22 17:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by â?¥MissMayâ?¥ 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You want this women because she is unobtainable and won't let you in her world. She's like a safe that holds a million dollars and even though you'll never crack the code, you keep trying. You need to leave her alone. Run. Fast. She sick. She's beyond your help.
2006-10-22 16:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by indepwman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then why would you want her in the first place?
I'm a good girl- I've had sex with only one person, I'm loyal, and love my man. There are many girls out there like me.
And if she has killed animals, then you've got a problem. With the mentally disturbed, it usually escalates from animals to humans.
2006-10-22 16:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
im going to tell you the truth thats whats going on between me and my boyfriend. i wasnt a whore that sold myself for cash i was the whore who slept with alot of guys. i finally found someone i loved but then my ex came back the feelings i had for him came back and i slept with him. i lied to my love millions of times and he forgave me when i finally changed my ways it was too late. what im trying to say is many guys dont understand girlss too! but when you love someone you have to deal with their probelms you still have a chance i dont be with her and let her know that you will never give up on her. love is something that will never change you only have it once. dont give it up because of a probelm. if you love someone never give up on them no matter what.people change it may take a while but they do they just have to know that themselves and you have to bieleve in them.
2006-10-22 16:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by renachi 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lol.. Wow, that sucks. I haven't fallen in love with a heartless whore, but I have fallen in love with a cheating lazy *** bastard. -- I feel your pain.
2006-10-22 16:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by IWantToKnow 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it`s a case of treat em mean, keep em keen. or some people like.
2006-10-22 19:26:10 · answer #8 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After all that I'd like a rest, and a cool Beer!!
2006-10-22 16:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by Fluke 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No but I would say, see ya round, freak!
2006-10-22 18:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by ball_cathie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋