my best friend died a few years ago ..and im still taking it really hard.I want to go see her grave but when I do I feel so bad and just don't want to go anywhere for months.I went to her grave a few days ago and I feel worse.I look at her in photos and I cry a lot .How do I move on.Her not being here is making me really depressed because she was my best friend and she hung herself and I can't even go to certain places because I miss her so bad.Can anyone please tell me why I am wanting to just curl up in a ball and die? I really need some help before I do somthing I will regret.So..please help me!!
2006-10-22 09:22:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you take your own life not only will you be in even more unimginable pain in hell but you don't give yourself a chance to meet a new best friend. As hard as it is to hear this you've got to let her go. Stop living in the past. Remember all the good memories you had together with your best friend and cherish them but let her go. If she is in a place where she can see you now imagine how she must feel. Do you really think she would want to see you suffering like this? Honor her memory. Don't let her see you live like this. Move on in her honor. Don't look at it as trying to replace her. You will never replace her. But you can find a new friend. We all need a best friend. Wherever she is, your best friend understands that. Don't waste what's left of your life by refusing your own happiness. I am truly sorry for your loss but you must let go and move on.
God bless you!
2006-10-22 09:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 05:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by latassa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm VERY sorry to hear that! i do'nt know what i'd do without my BF. i would spend time with my other friends do stuff to take your mind off it. Try adn think that she has gone to a better place and that she is watching you. I bet she woudl want you to be happy after she died. To move on but she'll still watch over you. What would she want you to do. she wouldn't want you to be deppressed al l your life. so just dop things to get your minds off it.try and build up corage ot visit her grave. She would want you to move on and be happy. You probably were VERY close wiht her she was liek a sister with you. you might not me used to being away from her and you ned some suport. Hanging with my friends makes all the difference for me. Try talkign to her in the sky (i know it sounds weird but try it). I hope you get better! I;m trully sorry for what happened. Stay Strong!
2006-10-22 09:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by snowflake10012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything stupid. I think that maybe you should speak to a grief counselor or something. Suicide is a very difficult thing to get over. Actually you will probably never get over it, but you can obtain the skills that will help you deal with it. Are you mad at her? I am still very MAD at my friend that commited suicide because that is the most selfish thing that a person can do.
2006-10-22 09:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by kim j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww.... I'm sorry about your friend dying. You guys have probably been great friends that's why you miss her so much. It's ok to cry if you want. It's not your fault she died. What you need is to move on and find another friend. Then you'll start to realize that you stopped thinking about her.
2006-10-22 09:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk about this with a professional. They can help you work through your feelings and find peace. Tell your parents that you want help, or a trusted friend. If you are old enough, find a counselor to help you. Bless you, hon.
2006-10-22 09:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel so bad that your best friend died. I think you feel that way because you are probably depressed - try taking some anti-depressants.
2006-10-22 09:27:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i lost my one of my best friends and i kinda moved on cuz i like burned all my pics of her and yeah now i just remember her im my mind
2006-10-22 17:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT EVER YOU DO DON'T KILL YOUR SELF !!!!!!!!!!!!!! your think about your friend would she want you to kill your self? i don't think so it's had dealing with these thing's and some people never get over these thing's but you should work harder in life for them
2006-10-22 09:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by vicky v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can see you,like in a mirror image,when you stand at her graveside.
you will make her sad to see you like this,she would want you to live twice as much so she can still live thru' all your experiences....travel the world,come see me,I will make you welcome!
2006-10-22 11:48:43 · answer #10 · answered by BellaDonna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋