any ideas on how to make your man hot before the act usual sex part. I my not very good at this part i need some help
2006-10-22 09:21:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know when a guy is horny it dont take much but for the sametime after a very hard day at work and there not to into it how can i get him to want it more then anything. i want to make his head spin.
2006-10-22 09:34:43 · update #1
how about a sensual massage...a lap dance. candles and music. a bubble bath together. show up in a long coat wearing lingerie underneath. tease him..rent some porn and watch it together.
2006-10-22 09:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by moluvsmark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my advice it to do some reading. Some titles by Graham Masterton should do the trick. I suggest: How to Drive Your Man Wild in Bed, and How to Drive Your Man Even Wilder in Bed. Those should do the trick. They should put you on the path. See, sexyness isn't really a destination, but a journey. To say you are not good at getting his attention tells me you lack both confidence and enthusiasm. You married him, right? You caught his attention once! You need to look at yourself in the mirror and realize that you ARE SEXY! That you can do a few things to become REALLY SEXY! Talk to your hair dresser, is there something you can do there? How about make-up? Ever had a makeover? Even just for fun? How about lingerie? Are you picking out stuff he actually likes? How about grabbing a magazine (Fredrick's of Hollywood, Victoria's Secret, etc) and asking him what he likes? Then surprise him with a secret order! There are SOOOOO many things to do! And SOOOOOO much reason to try them ALL! Or as many as you can! Live! Don't sit and wait or put it off so that years down the road you have regret... Regret is horrible, only because much of time it really didn't have to end up as regret. Go for it, if not of him, for yourself! Good luck! You can email me directly if you have any more questions or need specific ideas. Later, Matt.
2006-10-22 22:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by adtmatt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a couple of books out there that are great for this. Foreplay is EXTREMELY important for women and it is neglected by many men. I love to have my body touched, my nipples sucked and any type of oral action usually gets me going. But it has to be good... BACK TO THE BOOKS. The "Little bit naughty book about sex" is great on details of foreplay to get you both humming.
Best of luck
2006-10-22 21:42:36 · answer #3 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress in some sexy outfit and be seductive. if you are undressing do it slow and turn away so his imagination has to work. Seduction is very hot and our imaginations play a vital roll.
2006-10-22 16:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by expat0171 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thought of sex makes everyone hot. design the sexiest way in your bedroom to make him more sensous and attractive and remember to let him discover the surprises. that will sure make him hot.
2006-10-22 16:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA, tell him you are excited and that should be enough. It only takes the wind blowing to get us guys hot.
2006-10-22 16:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by scott in minnesota 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex should be a natural event with a husband and wife, it should never be planned, or thought of, it should just happen.
2006-10-22 16:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put a few heavy quilts or blankets on him. Makes me hot every time. Ask a stupid question, get a stupid answer.
2006-10-22 20:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i gave my fiance a lapdance and he went out of control. Even if you don't know how to dance just move around slowly and sexy. tease him with peaks at your goods.
2006-10-22 16:24:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit him in a sauna for 30 minutes - that should make him hot!
2006-10-22 16:23:07 · answer #10 · answered by Fluffy 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋