Recently, I had sexual intercourse for the first time. However, it hurt so much that we couldn't completely go through with it. It was very painful and I saw alot of blood. I was rly scared. I haven't tried since then. Onlt about half went inside, but it was still painful. Does anyone recommend a comfortable position or anything that could make it much easier? Also, I'm not sure if my hymen is comletely gone...is there anyway that I could view an image to note the difference. Thank you very much. Please help.
2006-10-22 09:05:47 · 5 answers · asked by linz M 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It ALWAYS hurts the first time. Anything you have seen or read that shows the first time as romantic, beautiful and orgasmic is just bs.
It will take a few times for you to relax and allow your muscles to loosen up. Your fear of the pain will cause the muscles to involuntarily contract and be painful.
So relax and no there are no images to see the difference in the hymen.
I hope you are using protection, better safe than sorry.
2006-10-22 09:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by Gem 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that any woman who still has her hymen intact is going to let anyone take pictures of it, unfortunately.
You need to use a lubricant, you can get KY warming liquid at walgreens pretty cheap.
Take it slow, just do a little bit at a time and stop when it hurts, just do enough to tear it and then stop and let it heal. It should get easier and even enjoyable for you before to long. Make sure you're in the mood and good and horny first because that causes the vagina to expand.
2006-10-22 16:32:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
consult gynaecologist , if hymen is thick enough to repture, seldom these conditions require minor incision.
2006-10-22 16:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by gurdip_homeo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
need to want to be doing it with the person youre doing it with, and use lubricant, and take your time...be on top, you can control the speed and depth of penetration.
2006-10-22 16:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by David B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you could try not doing it...maybe until you're married
2006-10-22 16:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by 1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋