I'm a big idiot I had unprotected sex on my period!?

Question

I really am scared now. I had unprotected sex on my period! I went to take a shower and I had now it went away and I'm afraid, I heard that guys have precum too, is it possible for that to get in me and impregnate me,Oh my I'm freaking out and I don't know what to do, I'm wondering if this is his way of making me never leave him but he refused to wear one. I'm really really scared!

he doesnt have any stds he showed me results of his tests. Im still scared its day 3 of my period. my period lasts 6 days and if its true and the sperm can stay in there for up to 5 days im wicked screwed. He didn't refuse to wear it,i worded it wrong. I suggested it but he got so hot and heated he just went and did his buisness,now should i be worried if my period doesnt come back?

Answer 1

First of all, if he won't respect your wish to wear use a condom, HE'S NOT WORTH IT!! I fell for that once too, it's a hard lesson to learn. If you had sex while on your period, it's probably not going to result in a pregnancy. If you miss your next period though, take a test right away.

If he refuses to wear a condom, then he's not very responsible and he's definately not the type to have a baby with (even if he says he wants one with you). If he can't respect your wishes to keep from getting pregnant or getting STDs, just drop him. Believe me, you'll thank yourself some day.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Contrary to what some have written here YOU CAN get pregnant while on your period. You have 2 ovaries and both are capable of releasing an egg at any given time with in the month. This is how fraternal twins occur. Fraternal twins are two eggs fertilized by two different sperm. The eggs are not fertalized at the same time nor usually even the same day in the occurance of fraternal twins. Though rare it is possible to ovulate from one ovary while mensturating.

Your period going away would have absolutely nothing to do with becoming pregnant. In fact even if you were to have become pregnant, it would not interefere with the current period. That just isn't a possiblity biologically. It is most likely from your nerves or something else. Could even be a shorter period or a broken period (one that stops and starts again). I wouldn't spend too much time worrying about it at this point. Again, it is very rare and truthfully fraternal twins would usually run in the family.

Finally, you have control over your body and who you allow to enter it. No one can force you to have unprotected sex. You have a say.

Hope the best for you.

Answer 4

Go to the doctor and get tested (pregnancy, ,STD's, and HIV/AIDS).

July 2, 2001 -- Yes, it is possible for a woman to get pregnant during her menstrual period. Though the chances of pregnancy are usually lower at the onset of a woman's period, there is no predictable time during the month when the risk of pregnancy is absent.


Here is a brief overview of how it could happen.


During each menstrual cycle, a woman's ovaries release an egg, or ovum. This process is called ovulation. This typically takes place an average of about 14 days before the start of a woman's monthly period, but the timing varies from month to month even in the same woman (and sometimes does not occur at all). After ovulation the egg moves toward the uterus through the fallopian tubes, where fertilization may take place. An unfertilized egg may live for about 24 hours. If it isn't fertilized, the egg will be shed during the next menstrual period, along with the lining of the uterus.


A woman is most likely to become pregnant if sexual intercourse occurs just before or just after ovulation. Sperm can survive for several days -- typically two or three -- inside a woman's body. Under ideal circumstances, however, they may remain viable for up to five days. So if sperm are deposited early -- such as during a woman's period -- they can hang around a few days, waiting until conditions are right for conception.


In addition to the survival skills of sperm, a recent study in the British Medical Journal highlights another reason why couples sometimes conceive during the woman's period. Research results indicate that the "fertile window," or time during the month when pregnancy can occur, is highly unpredictable for most women.


During the three-month study, researchers collected data about the hormone and ovulation patterns of 221 healthy women who were trying to get pregnant. They found that, overall, an estimated 2% of women were in their fertile window by the fourth day of their cycle, and 17% by the seventh day. (Day one of the menstrual cycle is the day a woman starts her period.) On every day between days 6 and 21, there was at least a 10% probability, on average, that a woman could become pregnant. In addition, women who reported regular periods had up to a 6% probability of being fertile on the day that menstruation was expected to start. Ovulation was even harder to predict in women with irregular periods, according to the study. The researchers concluded that timing intercourse to avoid (or achieve) pregnancy is quite difficult and cannot be done with precision.


Until you or your girlfriend decide you want to have kids, the best insurance that you can take to prevent pregnancy is to always use an effective means of birth control -- period or no period.

Answer 5

Well u can't get pregnant when u have period, but if u still have your period then it's good. But I think u should go to the store and by a test that way u can check for shore if u pregnant or not.

Answer 6

Sounds like you are not married or not ready for kids. HE WOULD BE THE BIG MAN AND YOU THE LIL SLUT IF YOU BECOME PREGRANT AND HE WALKS. Don't let him do it to you. Make him use protection or tell him you can get sex without him.
Don't let idiotic guys like that screw up your life . Tell him pussy talks and every thing else walks. either use protection or walk:):). he'll either come around or isn't worth it.

I've seen a lot of young women get into life time trouble(miss out of education, the works) because they listened to some fruitcake who walke dout of their lives after responsibility arrived.

Answer 7

Well to tell you the truth you really have nothing to be worried about because you can't get pregnant on your period...well you can but it's very rare because there is no egg to be fertilized...but there still is a chance but it's very rare not saying it won't happene because it will if it's meant to happen

Answer 8

First of all, since he refuses to use a condom, refuse to have sex. Your life is more important then him! Secons, it is extremely rare for women to get pregnant on their period.

Answer 9

Who in the hell has sex while their on their period anyway?? You should have known better than that. You deserve to be scared to death. Not only is your boyfriend a idiot... you take the cake. I hope you make better decisions in the future.

Answer 10

although its possible its rare to get pregnant while you are on your period. usually you dont ovulate until about 2 weeks afterwards so i woundlnt worry about it