He bought her a 1.3 carat diamond ring, the ring he got me is half the size but the cost was the same as my diamond is better quality. I know this to be fact but why does it hurt me so much knowing her ring was bigger than mine?
2006-10-22 08:41:33 · 31 answers · asked by BlondeBarbie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am sure the ring he bought you is just as if not more beautiful. I am sure he took a lot of time and thought when he picked it out. Enjoy the ring he bought you it represents a promise to you and to him. The promise to marry. Stop worrying and being foolish about the "OTHER" ring and start enjoying the plans you will be making for a wedding and hopefully happy marriage.
2006-10-23 05:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about it would you rather have a bigger ring ,but you know the quality sucks or know that he care for you enough to buy you a ring that will last a life time. If you care that much about the ring then you should check to see how much you really love him or how much you love the idea of being married.
2006-10-22 08:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about this,get past yourself the ring is a symbol a gesture if you will of the future you will spend together,my parents have been married for forty seven years do you think the ring is what makes this thing work,I THINK NOT. if I was the poor man with you, I would very seriously reevaluate this relationship! A ring is nothing compared to what you will face in the years to come!!!!!!!
2006-10-22 10:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by youngbuckoldsoul 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I might desire to declare that I study each and everything and that i are conscious of it incredibly is for use as a non everlasting ingredient and you will replace it yet i does not choose that. it is what you will possibly desire to do. Take that ring and sell it or what ever to get your money. Make a hoop or get one for some money that doesn't look as though a real engagement ring like a plastic one or something gentle so as that she will positioned on it yet she understand that isn't the genuine one. once you pass to indicate tell her which you adore her and which you somewhat choose to marry her. Say that top now you have no longer have been given the money to get her the ring she merits and which you promise that throughout the time of the destiny she gets that ring yet for at present you in basic terms choose to coach her that she ability the international to you and which you will possibly do something for her. in simple terms use what's on your heart. do no longer provide her the different ring it would desire to easily reason issues in view which you stated she will never understand and which you will possibly replace it yet how do you clarify why you choose to threat the ring??? stable success i'm constructive each and everything will paintings out! do in simple terms no longer USE YOUR EX GIRLFRIENDS RING!!!!!
2016-10-15 07:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you feel that he loved her more. Point is, he is marrying you and not her. Women put so much emphasis on size of the ring. My husband when we dated bought me a humongous ring and I made him take it back and he got me a much smaller ring, why? because I did not want him to be making payments on it for the next few years. We've been married 14 years and have a house and a kid. Quality is worth more than quantity.
2006-10-22 08:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should be grateful instead of complaining. If I were your fiance, I'd think twice about marrying you. He bought you a quality ring . . .what more could you ask? He should have learned his first lesson . . .buying a significant other a ring. He still got you a ring despite the breakup of his previous relationship.
2006-10-22 08:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by Wondering myself 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like his tastes got more sophisticated over the years.
Would you want to go to a restaurant the gave you really big portions but the food is just OK.....or a restaurant that gives you smaller portions but the food is excellent.
I question your love for this guy if you're upset about the size of your ring.
2006-10-22 08:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because you're selfish and greedy. Be glad he bought you a ring at all and is with you since he doesn't have to be and is choosing to be. If you can't get past it, then do him a favour and give him back the ring and call off the relationship.
2006-10-22 08:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So, what's the problem? Are u marrying the ring or the guy? Does he still love you? Somebody is always going to have something bigger, better, more expensive, brighter than you. Don't take it so hard-
2006-10-22 08:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My god, these commenters are a bunch of cold hearted jerks! It would absolutely bug me too. It s easy for people NOT in this situation to NOT understand. The ONLY reason why you must never bring it up is because then HER memory will forever be attached to your ring for him if you do that. Bringing up their exes only serves to put her in his mind. Stay strong and try to think of things he has given you or done for you that he never did for her.
2016-10-21 02:15:06 · answer #10 · answered by Crissy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋