of u got pregnant on the first try as in the first month of trying to concieve im just wondering how comman it is cause im 16 i thought i was pregnant last month but the blood test revieled i wasnt but before i had the blood test we had done it the night b4 i went for it cause i had started to bleed and we wanted the baby so i was scared i know what we did was stupid but about 2 weeks later or somethin like that the condom broke and now im missing my period again and i cant get a preg test till friday when my boyfriend gets paid so im just wonderin how many women got preg in the first month without calculating ovulation no matter what age plz thanks no bull **** plz yes i will tell my mom just as soon as i know for sure but at the moment shes out of town for the week so i cant very well ask her for help anyway
2006-10-22 08:39:59 · 8 answers · asked by I luv you James! 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
first off i didnt do it on purpose me and my boyfriend only have some fun once in a while and we always use protection so dont give all the third degree kk its just a simple question
2006-10-22 08:45:40 · update #1
First of all I`m not judging anyone. I was 15 when I had my first son. And 20 when I had my second son. Now here I am 23 and been tring for my 3rd for over a year and a half. And no at that age you don`t have any business having a kid. But just because you do dosen`t mean you won`t be a good mom. Ask anyone that know`s me and they`ll all tell you I`ve been the best possible mom. I personally got pregnant with my first son at 15 and we weren`t tring either way.. We had lots of unprotected sex. And we had only slept together in a one month time period. I don`t know how common it is but for other woman but for me with my first son it took less than a month and we weren`t tring either way. But it happened. But my second son took a lot longer and now that I`m tring for a 3rd time its taking even longer than that. Hope that helps. Sorry if it dosen`t. Either way I hope you get what you want either way.
2006-10-22 09:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by amy h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look i'm 17 years old and i'm going through the same thing just wait it out becuase the first time you know me and my boyfriend was having unprotected sex and i thought i was pregnant because i was maybe 10 days late on my period but i went to the doctor and they said no but the day before we had unprotected sex again so i'm just waiting until friday to see if my period appears and the whole month we have been having unprotected sex not saying it's good but can't no one judge me nor you on or tell us whats wrong ...but don't stress it if it's meant for you to have a baby you will and god won't put more on you then you can bare so f&$k what everyone else is saying nine out of ten they first got pregnant at a young age and now what to tell everybody what is right or wrong but like my mother said everyone makes mistakes so wait it out take a test or go to the doctor and take a test to be sure and if you are good luck to you and i wish you the best...
2006-10-22 16:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by flag.st_princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, no bull **** here. I was 17 when I had my first child. FIRST TIME having sex WITH A CONDOM. Don't think it can't happen to you. I am now 25 with 2 children a 7 yr old and an 8 month old. I wouldn't trade my children for anything but I also lost out on being a kid and partying in college or going out with co-workers for a drink after work. Kids change everything. I understand that you weren't trying to get pregnant but you should really "double" protect yourself. Use condoms and pills or something.
2006-10-22 18:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It took me a long time to get pregnant with my first child. I don't want to lecture you about waiting you should do what ever fells right. I know that from the time I started having sex until now I have had a lot of different boyfriends. I'm glad that I waited until I met my husband before getting pregnant. I think back on who I could have ended up with or how I could have been struggling. I love my family and I'm glad that I waited for the right time. I have provided her with the life that I never had and the love of both stable parents. If you are not pregnant think that it may be a sign from God that it's not time and it will happen when it's time.
2006-10-23 00:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by mimi lc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys can't afford a pregnancy test until payday, then you can't afford to have a baby.. Wait until you are older with more education and a good job. What kind of life are you going to be able to provide? It's not fair to bring a child into the world like this.
2006-10-22 16:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by pussnboots333 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I just want to know where you get the idea that you're capable of being a good mother at 16.
2006-10-22 15:42:43 · answer #6 · answered by CelebrateMeHome 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
First pregnancy, 3rd time.
2006-10-22 15:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off ur mad young think about kids later!
2006-10-22 15:43:23 · answer #8 · answered by keira m 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋