do it hurt....?

Question

this is gonna sound gross, but does it hurt to hav sex 4 the first time when ur a girl? wat's the average age to loose virginity? i dont feel ready but all my friends have and its weirder to be around them now. im freaking out! the pressure!

Answer 1

Why are you worried about an average age? I could understand you feeling pressure from a long time boyfriend or fiance (my guess is you are very young) but your friends? Why do they care if you are doing it or not? You choosing not to have sex with just anyone will prevent numerous problems both physically and emotionally. You need to not worry about if it hurts but how will you deal with all of these new emotions, insecurities,and fears. Sex can be a good thing but only under the right conditions and if you are asking these questions the conditions are not right yet. Don't give into pressure, trust me these girls will be envious of you if you make the better choice. Stand your ground, wait until the time is right!

Yes, it will hurt and you will bleed but that's the least of your worries.

Answer 2

it will only hurt if u don't get lubricated enough. plenty of foreplay and touching is in order to lube the vagina properly.there is no average age to lose your virginity. Don't lose it because of peer pressure! This is supposed to be a special experience and if u r not ready ,don't do it. When u are old enough and responsible enough then it is the right time. To have sex with someone its not just about feeling good it should be very special and u should be in love. This only happens once.

Answer 3

It's cliche, but, if your friends all set themselves on fire and jumped off a bridge would you do it too? I lost my v-card when I was 18. If your friends are making you uncomfortable to be around them now, then they aren't really your friends. No matter what anyone on here says you're gonna do what you want, so please at least be careful if you decide to do it, there are a lot of consequences to having sex. If you don't feel ready, don't do it, you'll regret it sooner or later if you do it before you're ready.

Answer 4

it can hurt if his penis is big or thicker than yr vagina whole
you may bleed on yr first time maybe a little or alot
do it when yr ready and with someone whose gonna be thr for you
and when they talk about it just listen to thr stories they wont talk about it all the time
try to wait
most girls regret not saving it
and some are okay with loosing it but sometimes miss being a virgin

Answer 5

don't give in to peer pressure. Easier said than done, I know, but in 5-10 years these girls' opinions of you will mean nothing.

wait for when it's right; it's not a race to keep up with the others.

when they 're tied down with young'ns, you'll still have choices as to what to do with your life.

Answer 6

Not necessarily. But even if it does a little, it doesn't matter if you really want it to happen. You'll know when's the time and who's the guy. Until then - take it easy, its your life, dont let anyone else make up your mind for you.

Answer 7

there's a frightening hadith of Prophet(pbuh) i do no longer understand the right words however the hadith is that if a Muslim see an oppression and makes a decision to no longer do something approximately it, does not condemn the acts of the oppressor via his heart or via his speech have the backside point of Emaan.

Answer 8

Yes, it hurts. Wait until you are ready.

Answer 9

I've heard it hurts but I have no first-hand experience ;)

Answer 10

yes its excrutiating pain, but dont worry it goes away after a week or two