i have this gd mate who is a girl and has a b.f (i kinda like her) i was talking to her on msn , when she sayed she had to go i says take care she got annoyed at me cos i was sounding like her b.f any ideas on what i can do , i dont want her to block me on her msn
2006-10-22 08:22:47 · 16 answers · asked by ak222002 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
all you said was take care, maybe something is up with her and her boyfriend, possibly he said something similar and it reminded her, ask her whats on her mind, tell her you are there to listen, she may just need to let off steam so dont take it personally, listen to what she has to say and comfort her, you will get closer to her by doin this aswell, hope i helped email me and let me know.
2006-10-22 08:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
god! bit of an over reaction isnt it on her part. i say that to taxi drivers for goodness sake! maybe you hit a nerve and if she blocks you from her msn then frankly you've had a lucky escape! she sounds a bit in the head in the nicest way possible, you cant freak out over someone saying take care, try telling her to have an accident nx time and see how she likes that!
2006-10-22 15:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is over-reacting. I say take care to all my friends male and female at the end of msn conversations as well as when saying goodbye in person. It just shows you care. Maybe you should talk to her and say you're sorry for upsetting her, but its just because she matters to you. Hope this helps.
2006-10-22 15:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by Leggy_Babe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude but she sounds like a moody BIATCH - if you like her that much though talk to her and ask her if she was offended by your comment which you only said as you care about her.
It all depends do you want her as ur girl if not just keep chattin and be there for her. Every girl needs a guy like you for a best friend.
Take care (jokes aside)
x1x
2006-10-22 17:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetie Pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend is a little sensitive. "Take care", is a perfectly good way to finish messages or a person-to-person conversation, irrespective of the genders involved.
I would talk to your friend and explain you meant no harm. Perhaps there is an underlying reason (of which you are unaware) that would explain her reaction.
Good luck.
2006-10-23 03:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her a message explaining that you didnt mean it like that,and that you were only saying "take care" as a friend and that you wouldnt want to ruin your friendship because of one comment.it'd be a shame to leave it the way it is,as it sounds like a good friendship that you share.good luck and hope it all turns out right for you.
2006-10-22 18:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by stokies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate, I understand your dilemma.
U say take care and she says you sound like her boyfriend. Ask her what that means? Talk to her about it.
I know how I'd handle it but this is your fight. Try and talk to her and understand her comment a little better.
2006-10-22 15:32:30 · answer #7 · answered by Knight-wing 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she has a cheek my and my best guy friend say things like that all the time on msn when one of us is going away ignore her and block her on msn she obviously doesent deserve ur friendship and respect, good luck x
2006-10-22 15:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG...she's a bit touchy aint she? Myt b her bf...there's something going on here...get ur detective hat on!
2006-10-22 15:25:40 · answer #9 · answered by poshnosh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why was she annoyed ask her why and then tell her not to be so touchy next time
2006-10-23 06:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by victoria h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋