i am friends with a guy for almost 2 years now. We really get along very well. We are close friends. I already started falling for him but he doesn't know. My question is what are the chances that someway or the other he also has feelings for me? Or is it really possible to remain friends w/o romantic admiration on the side?
2006-10-22 08:19:17 · 13 answers · asked by lovingyouforever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Once you put the romantic side in it's really hard to stay friends - it becomes very complicted. Platonic relationships between the opposite sex is fantastic. It clicks. Now if he feels about you romantically and starts giving you little hints - then open up to him - let him know - The best couple relationships start out as being best friends.
2006-10-22 08:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the chances? I don't know. But it is definitely possible to have a platonic friendship with a single girl, I'm living proof of that: )
2006-10-22 08:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two of you go out drinking, get wasted and see what happens. As long as neither of you freak out when you wake up together its cool. Freaking out the next morning is a sure sign its not going to work. Taking it to the next level can, sometimes, ruin a friendship. He may be worried about losing you as a friend. He may worry that making a move on you might also damage your friendship. Its a difficult situation to be in . I was kinda joking about the getting drunk thing but thats usually when we do things we normall might be afraid to do.
2006-10-22 08:22:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 07:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ive been here . if you falue this friendship above sex or marrige or anything else then dont go any farther here but if you want this guy for a lover and mate then youve got to let him know even if he dosent feel the same . trust me he wont mind either way . youll still have his friendship if he dosent feel same here but i do warn you . in many cases sex between friends changes everything permanently . i had best friend in a girl for years and i was married and she was brother in laws gf so for years we stayed friends at distance then wife cheated with older married man and i divorced her then she left her bf and we started a very serious relationship with full sexual actions . this was heaven to me i loved haveing her beside me and the sex was best ive ever had but something was missing here . i loved her as a friend and sex just wasnt enough . i couldnt fall in love between the ears but every other way i was lost but with time i realized i had to let her go because i respected her so much . our friendship was changed now i never hear from her ever and i miss her deeply and ive tryed to contact her but she aviods this . i told her truth and her me and we never hurt one another but after the sex we just couldnt be best friends anymore . if i had loved her i would have married her in a minute but i didnt and dont but i really lost important feelings by trying to love her . i miss her but im glad i did try but truthfully if i had second chance in my case i would have never went thare but some friends can handle this just most cant . oh yea we did promise if relationship didnt work that wed stay best friends afterwards lol but didnt happen that way now i really miss my best friend here and a replacement just isnt possible so consider my case before you take plunge but love dose sometimes occur .
2006-10-22 08:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by sigmond 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It IS possible to have a platonic relationship.
But since you have feelings for him, it'll probably be a little hard to be in only a platonic relationship with him. It's possible that he has feelings for you too. But none of us can answer that question for you. Only he can...
2006-10-22 08:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chances are probably pretty good, shouldnt you be able to tell a little bit maybe? Does he not do anything to make you think that he might feel the same way about you?
2006-10-22 08:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by Sean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible..i have plenty of male friends im not attracted to..thing is you do have a crush on him..i say if you guys are friends why dont you tell him? the only way to find out if he likes you is by asking..so why dont you act all nonchalant and one day ask him a question like..: would you go on a date with me if i ask you out.? ofcourse make it seem friendly as if you just wnat to know his opinion..lol..good luck
2006-10-22 08:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, difficult one....i've had an extremely good male friend for 10 years....but it's begining to come out that actually he fancies me.....and has stayed single for 10+ years because he fancies me!!!!!! talk about guilt....... tell your friend how you feel, but if they dont feel the same don't expect that to ever change.either be happy wiht just friends or stay away from him.
2006-10-22 08:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your case you have answered your own question no. Tell him how you feel. If he likes being with you so much, he probably feels the same way.
2006-10-22 08:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋