2006-10-22 07:55:34 · 27 answers · asked by Longdistancer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If its behavior you wouldn't exhibit in front of your spouse or want them to know about, then its cheating.
2006-10-22 08:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by Carole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating...oh, definietly! I am sorry, if you are into this, but you are cheating. If you are the injured spouse, I am so sorry, and yes you are being cheated upon.
Anything that you do not want your spouse to see, hear, or read is cheating. Those feelings of excitement that you felt....cheating. Would you want your spouse to do this with someone else? Cheating. Cyber sex may be exciting and to some fun, but it's cheating..two people are involved, sexually feelings and sometimes feelings that aren't purely sexually start...would you want your spouse in the same room with you when you are doing this...no..then it's cheating!
Cyber sex has got to be one of the biggest reasons for divorces today. One person either the husband or wife thinks it's fun and exciting-the other one thinks cheating. But they often forget and don't take in consideration that they wouldn't want their loved ones making out with somebody via the web. I know of quite a few people's marriages was ruined by internet, some of them family. It doesn't hurt, it's make believe, these people don't know me..we aren't touching..so what does it hurt? It doesn't have to be physical to hurt, emotional and cyber cheating is just as painful. Maybe even more, because of the attitude of the person doing the cheating....so it's cheating...
God bless us all...............
2006-10-22 13:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by totallylost 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! Cheating doesn't just have to be physical, emotional cheating can be just as bad. If your spouse feels betrayed, or if YOU would feel betrayed by the very same behavior from your spouse, it is most definately cheating. Of course, there are some marriages or relationships where both parties agree that fantasy and cyber sex is not cheating, and then it is okay...to each his own.
2006-10-22 08:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by missapparition 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the first thing u should consider about that question is, if it is creating desire in your heart towards the person you are sharing this with. if so your eyes heart and mind are being drawn away from who and what is important.. In the eyes of man cyberspace, and fantasy are not cheating on your spouse. but if your a christian Jesus taught that if you look at the opposite sex with desire . ( cyber sex and fantasy would be a form of that ) you have already committed adultery in your heart. so this question really does not have a yes or know answer, because what might be wrong in your eyes may not be wrong in someone else"s
2006-10-22 08:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by redsyoungstud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see u having fun with a fantasy. And cyber sex, I think its cheating in a way but id rather my other be watching a cam and talking to a mic, then out bringing something home thats going to kill us.
2006-10-22 07:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by blwatson41 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe it is the same as porn, as long as you aren't trying to meet the people on the other computer. Now many feel that porn is cheating so i guess it really matters what you and your spouses feelings are about porn. I feel that it helps my relationship. The sex at home ends up being way better and spicier!!
2006-10-22 15:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by cherhub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fantasy as dreamin/ or fantasizein well rubbin one out on your own? no i woudlnt call that cheatin, tho i wouldnt do it and would hope i was the only person my better half would fantasize about aswell, but cyber sex i would consider a form, cuz your actually interactin with another person, not physiclly but theres still someone else involved and not just your thoughts like in a fantasy
2006-10-22 08:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by kydd 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This can lead to a porn addiction. My ex-huband went from a loving husband to wanting to watch this crap all the time. He had nothing left to give to our relationship. He started living in a fantasy world of his own making, and after 3 years I could no longer deal with his addiction and filed for divorce. Some of the others suggested to get her involved in the fantasy, that is gross and disrespectfull to her, and she may lose her respect for you as I did my ex. Nothing good comes from any type of porn.
2006-10-22 08:23:41 · answer #8 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may or may not be considered cheating, but I am guessing that it is definitely going to hurt your spouse and possibly ruin your relationship. Is it really worth it?
2006-10-22 10:47:42 · answer #9 · answered by Dental Hygienist Jess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, imagine telling your spouse that it meant nothing , it was just sex, and not with you. How would you feel? Besides, if you have to ask, you already know it is.
2006-10-22 08:01:59 · answer #10 · answered by pitmanette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋