i met this guy last Dec i loved alot
he said he was in the midst of divorcing
however his wife found out about me and hit the roof. i told him never to call me again as her reaction told me they probly werent divorcing
i havent talked to him since but love him alot. he said that he still planned on divorcing at that time but was concerned about his 2 yr old son
what do you think
thank you
2006-10-22 07:40:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Guys do not leave their wives for the other woman. They leave their wife and then get a new woman--it's never the mistress(too much messiness involved). You are being used, and not loved: how loving is it to keep someone hanging? Not at all. I think you should look into getting involved in things in life that make you happy,and when you are involved in something or someone that is making you unhappy, make a different choice. It's up to you; it's not up to him or his wife.
By the way, what a rotten husband and father this guy turned out to be. I feel most for the wife and child.
All the best to you in making better decisions.
2006-10-22 07:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by j14456um 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do I think? I think he wont leave his wife, or he would have already done it.
He says hes concerned with his 2 yr old, but thats pretty lame, cuz his 2 yr old son would not even know what was happening. If hes gonna do it, he better do it now. Itll only be harder for him later if he waits. His child WILL know if he waits.
Its just an excuse hes using. Id move on, hes wasting your time.
2006-10-22 07:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away...no, better RUN away.
First, he's a liar...not very good basis for a relationship, Second, he obviously has no respect for his wife, or love for his child, and has no problem cheating on them...and you wanna be next?
What is it that makes you think you will fare any better in a few years once the shine has worn off you? You better think this over a bit.
2006-10-22 08:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by Joe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on......usually guys do NOT divorce their wives to be with their lovers. He did that to her, could do the same to you. It is sad, very sad to break two people apart. You may not have done, but you could feel guilty for the rest of your life. He may still love her and go back to her. Sometimes couples go thru difficult times and one of them, or both of them, go and look for an affair. Sorry to say that, but married guys are never a good choice.
Good luck.
2006-10-22 07:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are probably going to get your heart broken, next time try to find a man that is not involved with anyone
2006-10-22 07:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by micheleh29 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a certain math formula you can use. Oh wait... what kind of a question is this.
2006-10-22 07:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by komical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, why would you want this man? maybe he will cheat on YOU. statistically, they usually don't leave their wives. i only know one guy who actually married his mistress. he is an anomoly....
2006-10-22 07:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by advicemom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a moron and think he will. You're the other woman, and you should have your *** kicked.
2006-10-22 07:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They almost never do , or they would have already !
2006-10-22 07:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋