i can't stop thinking about a guy i known for along time and we done everything in sex together
i don't see him anymore what should i do i have'nt seen him over 3 years now
2006-10-22 07:40:28 · 9 answers · asked by dj_danceraka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i broke up with him when he left for college but he never went he went home to his moms
2006-10-22 07:47:58 · update #1
By not telling us why you "let him go" you've made it a bit tricky to answer your question!
2006-10-22 07:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by John P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you have more in come than sex? If that's all you ever offered him, than he took what he needed from you and moved on. Never, ever let a man convince you that you should be this vixen who can fulfill all his sexual fantasies.
Here's the misconception that we as women have. If we give him everything he needs right away, he will see that I'm a good woman. Not. He will see you as eager to please and will use you. As a rule, sex or getting pregnant by a man will never keep him if that's all you offered him. If you offered him more never give too much too soon. Never be afraid to walk away or change the direction of your relationship if you feel you're being used, even if you're married.
Men like a mental challenge more than sex. Sex can happen anywhere with anyone at anytime, no big challenge there. Make him understand why he wants you without using sex, now that's the challenge for you and him. After three years, its time to mentally move on. Just let this be a lesson learned, we've all done it....
2006-10-22 14:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by indepwman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should remember why you guys stopped seeing eachother in the first place. My expirience is that when people get back together after long periods of time it never works. They are only remembering the good things. People break up for reasons.
Best of luck to you!
2006-10-22 14:43:21 · answer #3 · answered by bluestar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say really think about how you feel. Figure out if you liked him or the sex. if you find out that you really do like him. give him a call find out if he is even single first. if he is great maybe meet him for coffee and find out if he is still the man you once knew and loved. if he is taken then at least you'll know he is off the market and you can move on.
2006-10-22 14:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by coolseashell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus go to a party and meet someone. Try to move on, or try finding another guy with the same attributes
2006-10-22 14:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by hyphyboi408 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find a new guy to get over this one...I'm a guy! jk..
seriously though, i still think about my ex (of 3 years) because i haven't been in a serious relationship since...but when i start talking to a new girl, i forget about her easily...
just occupy yourslef with a new guy
2006-10-22 14:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by redims81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 words: move on
2006-10-22 14:42:22 · answer #7 · answered by ily[; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!
2006-10-22 14:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by Stacy M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just having good memories, we all have them, remember why you broke up
2006-10-22 14:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋