even though she hasnt had intercourse with me in 4 months?
2006-10-22 07:36:45 · 16 answers · asked by GitRDone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no. its a partnership. if she isnt giving it to u dont give it to her.
2006-10-22 07:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by Kay 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I have the same prob with my boyfriend and have spoken about it once and he's said he'll do it more but he doesn't... Anyway. Your boyfriend is being very selfish. It's not just take take take in a relationship, you have to give too, and this is something you need to tell him. Tell him you don't think it's fair that you give him oral and he doesn't give it back and explain that it's quite hurtful. Also, I'd lay off giving him oral until he gives you it, you'll def see him do it more then! Haha.
2016-05-21 22:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should dump her and go for a woman who is less selfish. But on second thoughts;
The results would be more constructive if you talk to her about this and tell her that being selfish will not at all work fine when in a relationship it all about giving as much or more than you get. Lack of good communication often leads to real mess in relationships. And good communication often saves many.
2006-10-22 07:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is not ok with you I suggest you need to communicate your needs to her - perhaps she thinks you are ok with the situation? If she is aware that your needs are not being satisfied and doesn't want to consider your needs it's time to decide if you really want to remain in a relationship with a selfish person.
2006-10-22 07:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by 6-Pack? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends. on how deep is ur relation...
if u want her for life.. then dont try to do anything silly..
just do what she says.
stay calm..
humans have sense to become dogs in a very short while..
i will suggest to wait and watch
god bless u
take care
2006-10-22 07:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by BEST ANSWERER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep doing it if you (and she) like it. If it feels like a chore or you're being used and not enjoying it, I'd say stop. I personally love eatin' it and would do it forever, if she's into it.
2006-10-22 07:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that depends why is she not having sex with you? That would help answer the question.
2006-10-22 07:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say NO. You keep satisfying her and gettin none. That's not right! She should give in return.
2006-10-22 07:39:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
depends, if she is giving you oral sex
2006-10-22 07:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by S 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she is one selfish person, move on, she's giving her best to someone else or absolutely doesn't care about you
2006-10-22 07:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by Sandy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd say no. Why should she neglect you and yet you have to do things for her?
2006-10-22 07:38:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋