my bestfriend is gay and he is from costa rica and is going to be deported within a year if he doesn't get married so he asked me to marry him and he already gave me rings and we already got a marriage license i am just scared if we get caught what will happen to me i have a daughter and don't want to lose her please give me advice on what i should do
2006-10-22 07:32:36 · 7 answers · asked by aryanna51704 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Have you thought about what life will be like living with this guy? It isn't easy being married to someone for the wrong reason. I married a disabled friend so he had a home until he could live on his own. It lasted 6 long miserable years. We were not intimate, and I could not go out with others since I was married and didn't believe in it. I am so glad to be rid of him that we are no longer friends. We constantly fought at the end. We just got on each other's nerves all the time and I was sexually frustrated to the point of explosion.
2006-10-22 07:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Double edged sword here. Do you live with the guy? Can you tell INS anything they want to know that you should know?
There is nothing illegal about marrying a friend for business purposes, but it is illegal to lie to the courts, or any legal entity.
If you can be be honest with your answers, then you have nothing to worry about.
It doesn't matter what his sexual orientation maybe, its about fraud. If you are honest, its not fraud.
Beware though, just because you get married; doesn't mean he doesn't get deported. They deport spouses all the time with no consideration to the people left in America.
2006-10-22 07:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by LucyLinnae M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think seriously about your future. Is this really what you want for you and your daughter? A life of dishonesty with someone you don't even love? What kind of example will that set for your daughter? You need to live your life for YOU and your child, and find someone to love you both and have a happy family life. Forget this guy, he is using you and has no respect for you to ask you to do this. You'd be crazy to do what he wants.
2006-10-22 07:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it makes a mockery of marriage! Plus your setting an extremely poor example for your daughter! The consequences, I believe are jail time. Think before you act! God bless!
2006-10-22 07:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur gay more power to ya
and for ur lill girl i think that she will understand in good time
so dont worry so much
and dont for get just becuz ur gay or lisbean doesnt mean that ur not human like some people in the world think
and if u do get married to ur best friend i think people will change
this hole gay and straight marrige think is lame and pointless
2006-10-22 17:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no hes gay i mean dont you want to marry someone who loves you? how can a guy who is gay ever love you? and your daughter too think about her. if you marry this guy your daughter will be growing up in a house where her mum and stepdad do not love each other. think about it.
2006-10-22 10:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by ♥çhÃrLiê $tå瀥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should of thought about your daughter before you got a marrige licence. Talk to her don't mention marrige, but tell her the situation and see what she says.
If you plan to divorce him then I would say absolutly don't get married.
2006-10-22 07:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by johnnysmit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋