2006-10-22 07:27:32 · 17 answers · asked by Tinkerbell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Being willing to answer your questions, hanging in while you deal with the understandable emotions, demonstrating a commitment to the relationship by severing contact with the other person.
All this is aimed at strengthening the bond that has been broken. It demonstrates a willingness to handle problems in a responsible way instead of trying to bury them, avoid them, or hope they go away. There are no shortcuts; the only way through this situation is to face it head on and deal with it. Even then, it will be difficult for everyone.
But there is hope that by actively working together, you can come through this with a stronger relationship and greater trust than you had before. A crisis like this provides a chance to "get it right" something most of us didn't really do in the first place when we had a kind of "blind trust" and just assumed everything would work out all right.
2006-10-22 07:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer is in the question EARN trust is earned and it is going to take a long time of you being delicate and faithful and open and honest .
2006-10-22 14:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by ang 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I gave it almost a year, and I couldn't take it anymore. I tired so hard, but I couldn't bring myself to trust him, no matter what. I filed for divorce last week.-- I feel so much better about things now, knowing that he can never do something like that to me again.
I just feel that if someone is capable of doing something like that once, then they can do it again.-- It gets easier and easier.
2006-10-22 14:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by IWantToKnow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its broke, you can't fix it. Best you can hope for is that time will allow the other party to gradually get used to the fact that 'once a cheater always a cheater' doen't have to be true, but don't expect that to change the fact that when you are late, or can't be reached, or do anything else suspicious they won't worry.
2006-10-22 14:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just once is all that it takes to cross the line. Once this is achieved, then doing it again is easy. Forget it and stop fooling yourself.You are on a one way street going nowhere. Maybe there is just a slight ray of hope. That person starts to trust you again.But don't be too sure of it.
2006-10-22 14:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by stewart j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It`s hard I was cheated on a little part forgive but never forgets.Be very nice and let them know how sorry u r,and don`t get mad if their is pay back
2006-10-22 19:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by MRS.K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time and they have to be able to know that they aint gonna be cheated on again, most of the time they dont trust because they are afraid of getting hurt again it takes time and trust to be able to forgive and forget...
2006-10-22 14:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by Army_Wife2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only through the willingness of the injured party to forgive and put the incident behind them, otherwise, they will never be trusted
2006-10-22 14:39:55 · answer #8 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to become an open book to your significant other. Cell phones, e-mails, everything. Time will take care of the rest.
2006-10-22 14:58:19 · answer #9 · answered by shellygirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That takes time. A long time.
2006-10-22 14:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋