I felt in love7 years ago , have been married with him for 5 years
We had a lot of problems .he heart my feeling.he didn't loved me enough . And now he is telling me that how much he loves me & he is proud of me. Our problem is over now .I forgive him but i canot
forget. What can i do? am not sure about my feelin anymore.
I decided to get divorce several times but, i couldnt ,i couldnt imagane my life with out him.I dont want him out of my life but i do not miss him (He is out of country due to his job)
I realy need help ??????? What's wrong with me?
2006-10-22 06:50:45 · 6 answers · asked by behnoush_k_1976 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Being confused is normal. You don't have to forget to forgive. It doesn't sound like you have truly forgiven. When you forgive, your heart opens. Then you have an open heart, instead of a clenched fist where your heart belongs.
Look for spiritual help, this is important enough to talk to a clergyman or counselor isn't it? It is. I divorced and forgave. I do it daily and feel so much better.
2006-10-22 07:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you. I am in the same boat you are in. My husband puts me down all the time and we have a nine month old baby and he never helps he never does anything really. i feel that io am not good enough for him,but he does show some affection,but i got the nerve to tell him that i wanted a divorce and i told him. i never went through with it because when i told him he gave me the guilt trip. but deep down i love him so much and i can't picture my life without him. that is something really hard decide and no one can really help, you have to do what feels right fr yourself not what someone else thinks is right for you.
2006-10-22 14:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you forgive him, but it doen's really sound like you did. When you say he "didn't love me ENOUGH", that tells me he was probably loving you a plenty, but you had trouble receiving it. It seems you are OK with him when he's at arms length and you can complain about him. Now that he's thrown his heart to you, you don't know how to handle it. Please seek professional help. You have a lot more questions besides "What's wrong with me?"
2006-10-22 14:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong is that you really need to talk with a professional (relationship) counselor and you're attempting to find real answers HERE instead.
2006-10-22 13:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to a marriage counsler or pastor they will help you. Or ask God he will let you know...
2006-10-22 13:56:13 · answer #5 · answered by ilih2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are confused about something he did to you .I don't know what happenend so all i can say is do what you want to do .
2006-10-22 13:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋