What is the normal time you think is normal for a man to bofore they ejaculate. Mine is usually 2-5 mins. My GF hasn't complained yet, but I find it hard to make her C^M. Also, how important it is for girls to *** always during S*X. Coz, I like to do it almost everyday but making her C^M is quite hard....
2006-10-22 06:41:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I think if you are just hammering your GF you will come pretty fast. The secret is satisfying her first with oral, fingering, massage of the clitoris. Mix it up, have a little of each and make it last as long as possible.
Yes women want to come and fortunately for us we can come many many times.
You can practice a technique practiced in tantra by yourself or with your GF. Stroke yourself until you are about to come, then stop completely, let yourself go limp, do this 6 times and on the 7th time you can come. It will blow your mind and teach you to control ejaculation.
2006-10-22 06:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by easinclair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think making her *** is too hard, you better give up the idea of sex everyday, because if she ain't getting hers, you won't be getting yours either. And there is no such thing as "normal time" before ejaculation. I've been w/ guys who ejaculate in 30 seconds and those who go 2 hours. The 2 hours was much better.
You ask "how important it is for girls to *** always during S*X". Try thinking of it this way.....how important is it that YOU *** during sex?.
2006-10-22 06:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by Sylvia H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm no sex expert or therapist but 2-5 minutes sounds OK but you need to make sure you've taken care of your GF first. It's as important to us to "finish" as it is to you. If it's difficult to get her there then try something different. Like movies, toys, positions, etc. If she's into it...place her hand on her 'area' and let her finish herself. Trust me...we know what feels good and what we like...we can always make ourselves finish the job! Encourage her to do this by letting her know what a turn on it would be for YOU to see. You'll be glad you did in the end.
2006-10-22 07:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that there is a normal time. Every guy is different. You have to find what turns her on and get her going way before you actually start intercourse. The hotter she is when you get started, the easier it will be to make her get hers. Ask her what she likes, try things that you haven't tried before. The key is finding something that she REALLY likes and enjoys.
2006-10-22 06:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by Keri E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, not very many women can come from intercourse, they need direct clitoral stimulation, I think that if you take the time beforehand or afterward to make her come by other methods, she will be extremely happy. Also try to start finding ways to last longer, 2-5 minutes for me is way to soon. Good Luck
2006-10-22 06:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i feel u i cant always come, and my husband can come about the same tim e u do. but it wont take lon before she complains. some girls dont want it all the time, and when the do they want you to work for it, not hey you want to do it it takes longer to turn a girl on then a guy, guys say pull ur pants down and there ready girls are totaly differant.
2006-10-22 06:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by babylove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how much you get her roweled up. For play will get her in the mood if she isn't the little kisses and that kinda of stuff gets her to want you more. You want her to be grabbing you or acting like she is trying to position you just right then she is probably getting close so wait.
2006-10-22 06:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by viper_chick2ridewit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's important for girls to orgasm as much as it is for guys. My husband normally goes after 10 mins if he's not trying not to. About a half hour or longer if he is tryin not to orgasm. We don't use a condom--so it's harder for him to "hold it in." With time--you'll probably last longer. Try giving HER an orgasm in another way before sex or after--she'll probably really appreciate it.
2006-10-22 06:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by .vato. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2-5 minustes is good. and i dout she would complain. as for her. it varys with every girl. a female can only feel 3in in. if you get her into the mood a lil more mabe that can help. try asking her what she likes and play around with that also warm water can help her 2. well i hope i helped...
2006-10-22 06:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by sweetsugar14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I takes girls alot more time than guys... u need to get to know her body, I never came with my boyfriend properly until about 6mths into the relationship becuase he didnt know my body, as her what turns her on, and foreplay is a defo must... dont get urself down about it, girls just geniunly need more then guys to get excited but boy when we do u will know about it!!
2006-10-22 07:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋