especially without discussing it with you
2006-10-22 06:40:06 · 14 answers · asked by JustJane 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
FURIOUS! Especially given I make more NOT working than he does working. (I'm on disability)
2006-10-22 06:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by Baby'sMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've resigned myself to the fact that he will do it, and it's just a part of who he is. He doesn't spend money on big ticket items without telling me, so that makes the frivolous ones even less important in the long run.
2006-10-22 06:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What seems frivolous to one may be very important to another. There may be more serious stuff to focus on.
The majority of stuff that a woman says she needs, messages, hairstyles, makeup, purses, shoes etc etc seem frivolous to me. BUT, at the same time I know that those items are important to her and make her happy. So it is money well spent to keep a little harmony.
2006-10-22 06:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by scott in minnesota 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As the as the bills have ben paid,I don't really mind that much,I mean I spend money on so called frivolous stuff,but to me they aren't,so why can't he do the same.
2006-10-22 12:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It bugs me...it seems neverending. It doesn't seem to matter how often I tell him that we need to save our money to get the bills paid he always comes home with receipts for coffee or breakfast, stuff he could have gotten at home but was to lazy to!
2006-10-22 06:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by janeannpat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It irks me. There are so many things we've talked about getting for our home, if fact I would actually like to move up to a better neighborhood and nicer house. So in answer to that he went out yesterday and bought a $6000 motorcycle. :(
(Can we say MIDLIFE CRISIS?)
2006-10-22 06:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've pretty much resigned myself to the fact that it's gonna happen, no matter how I feel about it.
2006-10-22 06:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by forgottenprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish he would but if he did and I didnt agree with his decision I would do the same thing to annoy him til he realised he shouldnt do it
2006-10-22 06:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by sexy j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I have the right to turn around & do the same thing.
2006-10-22 06:41:32 · answer #9 · answered by eyew@nnacoolnick 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if it's affordable-no problem; women spend also, as long as it doesn't take away from paying debt and necessities , it's fine
2006-10-22 07:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋