If there is Id really love to meet you. Im soft and fluffy, and can be hard and strong and a lot of fun. But I want a best friend and love and its hard to always have to be "a man", I just want to be able to be with a partner or friend who s the same, no gender.
Every time I meet a woman who says she is, when she falls out with me she calls me a typical male. Why do people have to divide us into these categories, and why cant I find a mate who is into equality. What they say and what they do, and behave seem to be two different things! I just want a best mate, for a mate, not a set of gender rules i cant live up to!
When people are children they learn from hints given off by their parents or society how a little boy and a little girl should act, and they eventually adapt, because they want to be accepted, they want to be loved and get attention. I never adaped. Are you out there?
2006-10-22 06:17:23 · 5 answers · asked by green_womble 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I TOTALLY get what you're saying, because I've felt the same way myself most of my life. I'm a pre-op female to male transsexual, but I don't exhibit the most stereotypical aspects of male behavior. Therefore I never quite fit in with the "butch lesbian" label, and even now, I don't quite fit in with the "straight male" label. Most people tend to think I'm a gay man, and well, *I* don't quite feel I fit THAT label either. I prefer to think of myself as "two spirited" or a "third gender" like you said. I consider it a blessing and a gift to be able to be "gender neutral" and see things from a feminine and a masculine perspective. I've been through the same thing of the girl who says she accepts me for who and what I am, until we have an arguement and then all of a sudden I'm "a typical guy". I hate categories, and I hate being confined to a little box. Didn't we already come out of the closet once? Sometimes twice (if you started as gay and then became trans). I don't want to be shoved back into repression for who I am. I consider myself a gentleman who just happens to be well mannered, educated, and respectful to people..all people. If you wanna chat with me, feel free to look me up. I think we are VERY much on the same wavelength. Sex is between the legs, gender is between the ears :) "I just want a best mate, for a mate, not a set of gender rules I can't live up to"...whoa, how many times have I said THAT to myself!? and I totally agree with you on wanting equality. I told my friend once, "why do we always refer to our significant other as our "better half" or "other half"? I don't want to BE a half, I want to be a WHOLE, and I want my partner to be a WHOLE so that when we come together, we create a bigger WHOLE, not pieces. I believe we should both be independent, but can also come together to compliment each other." So yeah..I'd LOVE to talk to you.
2006-10-22 07:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
via fact even in spite of the undeniable fact that people say they're...they actually can't...whilst people are babies they learn from tricks given off by way of their parents or society how a splash boy and a splash woman ought to act, and that they finally adapt, via fact they like to be familiar, they like to be enjoyed and get interest. even in spite of the undeniable fact that all people says the two genders are equivalent it is going to regrettably by no skill relatively be equivalent.
2016-11-24 22:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck
2006-10-22 10:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by kristina43 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-10-22 06:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by Spyder 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
WTF?
2006-10-22 06:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by oldstalecheeks 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋