i recently cheated on my boyfriend and i feel terrible...well i didnt do anything the other guy was putting the moves on me even tho i told him not to...he kissed me and all this junk and i still feel horrible...i just dont know whether to tell him or what...i just dont want to ruin what we have going in our relationship.
2006-10-22 05:56:23 · 28 answers · asked by savvy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i just recently...well i dont know whether to call it cheating or not...the guy like pinned me down and tried doing stuff with me..and every time i tried to get up..it was hard..he kissed me but i didnt kiss him back..should i tell my boyfriend of 10 months about this or wat?
2006-10-22 06:06:08 · update #1
i just recently...well i dont know whether to call it cheating or not...the guy like pinned me down and tried doing stuff with me..and every time i tried to get up..it was hard..he kissed me but i didnt kiss him back..should i tell my boyfriend of 10 months about this or wat?
2006-10-22 06:06:11 · update #2
if u are sure u didnt do anything than u shouldnt feel bad u were a victim of harrasement. if u want to tell ur man tell him what happened he will get pissed at the other guy not at u tell him u tried to stop him but he was to strong. U shouldnt feal bad u were a victim.
2006-10-22 06:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by practicully_famouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not being honest with yourself and your boy friend. From what you said, its like you have feelings for the guy at least for allowing him to pin you down and according to you, he kissed you and you didn't kiss him back. What were you doing in a tight corner with him? Well, if you are sure you don't have anything to do with him, Tell your boyfriend he is bordering you and you should stop playing around and stick to your boy friend at least he treats you well so, don't be unfaithful to him kissing some one else while in love with another is also CHEATING
2006-10-22 13:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you didn't cheat, it was the other guy who gave the kiss. Did you want him too? If so,then you cheated. If you didn't then just don't say anything,unless you want your bf to go after this guy. Just tell the guy never do it again,and you will tell your bf.If you did want the kiss, then might as well break it up with your bf.
2006-10-22 13:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good! im glad you feel horrible,
it aint the blokes fault, he didnt hold you down and kiss you did he!
its half and half darlin.
you have already ruined it by cheating on your bloke, it will come out in the end, either tell him b4 someone else does, so you MIGHT be able to save your relationship, or let a mate tell him, and lose him!
your call, i aint got no sympathy for you though, i have for your bloke though! poor git!
2006-10-22 12:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still cheated, he's going to take it hard, wait until you guys have a stable relationship and if you really care for him and you feel bad then tell him. i was in that situation once. the guy went out and got me back by doing the same thing. it hurts. but you learnt your lesson i hope.
2006-10-22 12:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
explain to your boyfriend and confess the truth will set you free in the other hands the guy over powered you and tried to take advantage of you tell that person hey ithis is uncool I am involved with someone please back off your boyfriend will understand if you tell him that you were nearly tooken advantage off remember he was the one that made the moves and you didn't want to do this because you you truly care about the person you are with
2006-10-22 13:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by Melody-Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are full of crapp, you fooled around with him and just didn't like it, stop trying to cause problems by telling your boyfriend that this guy put the moves on you when you were just testing the other fish in the sea. Next time you go slutting around dump your boyfriend first, ***** tease.
2006-10-22 13:00:14 · answer #7 · answered by briankamak 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you didnt do anything back and all he did as kiss you and you didnt awknoldge it then its fine ajsut tell your boyfriend he came on to you but you told him to get off and he didnt. if anything your boyfriend will get pissed and kill the bastard(i know im still lookin for the guy who did the same thing to my girl)
2006-10-22 12:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't feel better until you tell your bf about it. The guilt will eat you up. You know that you could have done more than just saying "stop" to this guy. You could have walked away.
2006-10-22 12:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better to tell him than him finding out from someone else! then it will be alot worse. He has ever right to not want to be with you or to be with you, Its his decision and you cant be mad at that because those are the consequences. Unless he has done something and confesses to you then just deal with it as it happens
2006-10-22 12:59:55 · answer #10 · answered by spazzychick21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋