I have this friend. I give her quite a bit of Myspace messages. She use to reply to me just fine, but now all she does is ignore my messages. Am I in fault for sending too many?
2006-10-22 05:45:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They do. You gotta ignore her for her to be interested. Sound stupid? Well, it's just the way it is. They hate a whiney boy always clinging and bugging them.
2006-10-22 05:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by wudbiser 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should cut down on the messages maybe 1 every other day because your friend might be getting annyoed with having so many messages a day. Also myspace isnt a place where you shud be sending personal questions save the personal questions for email or face-to-face interreactions. You should just send her messages you want the public to see.
2006-10-22 12:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by ohsnapitslexaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think it's a gender issue. I think too many emails, calls, messages can be annoying from anybody. I would take the hint. If you're really determined and like this girl, take out a sheet of paper, sharpen your favorite pencil and draft a letter. In it you could say something like, "Hey I really like you... I feel like..." The rest is in your hands. If you get a cold or no response, you need to just take the hint and let it go. For tips on letting it go, you might need to ask another Yahoo! question.
2006-10-22 12:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by Jon M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, girls do get annoyed if you send them a lot of messages. My suggestion to you would be to just send her one message. Then wait for her to reply. Then the next time just wait for her to send the first message. If she doesn't send you a message then just wait it out. If she still doesn't write to you, well it's no big deal. Find another girl to harass.
2006-10-22 12:46:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's quite possible that if you send too many messages and expect a reply for each one.
2006-10-22 12:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Back off and give her some space. Let her send you a message first.
2006-10-22 12:48:12 · answer #6 · answered by choc8qiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance makes the heart grow fonder. You aren't her boyfriend, so perhaps she doesn't feel obliged to give you a response all the freakin' time. That or she's busy. Stop spamming with messages, it's annoying.
2006-10-22 12:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by bansri47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drago, maybe you sent too many.. but..if you ...lets see... hope she is not your " girl friend.."....I'm guessing this is just a friend... i don't know why..i love getting messages..unless.. u write some thing she does not like.. Did you???
so depends on that..if you are at fault or not
2006-10-22 12:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse, try to not send too many messages put ur self in her place u will get bored for sure, send one message per day or whatever you think is ok
2006-10-22 12:48:45 · answer #9 · answered by Soulmate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish my friend would send me messages, I complained because he never sent me any and I thought he was trying to tell me to leave him alone, I will probably never speak to him again (hence my name) keep sending the messages until she tells you to stop
2006-10-22 12:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋