My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. I'm a virgin he is not, I really want to experience my first time with him. But I'm nervous and I haven't told him that I want him to be my first yet. Plus I don't want to be nervous when we do it, because being nervous ruins any experience. Any advice???
2006-10-22 05:40:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm ready, I'm not forcing it. I just want it to be an memorable, enjoyable experience. Not something I regret because I felt I ruined it.
2006-10-22 05:47:29 · update #1
The reason I'm on the internet asking is because my close friends are immature and will laugh @ me even though we are all 16.
2006-10-22 05:54:54 · update #2
when it is time ull know for sure, when u know its right u dont even have to tell him just kiss him more passionatly and he'll know (most likely) if he is meant to be ur first than ull both know. Wait till ur not nervouse and confident that it will be one of the best moments of ur life. thats what im doing with my bf . GOOD LUCK ; )
2006-10-22 05:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by practicully_famouse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are on the internet asking this question speaks volumes. You are not ready. When you are you will know. Good luck.
2006-10-22 05:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by choc8qiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is what you really want. remember we must all go through it and if he can and I can go through it so can you. Just let it happen though. Don't even try to plan it out just go with the flow and everythink will work out fine.good luck
2006-10-22 05:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprise that you haven't talk to your boyfriend about it. I think talking to him might ease your nervous about having sex and that way, both of you will be prepared when you guys decide to do it.
2006-10-22 05:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by Rommie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also a virgin and my bf is not.
I say wait till marriage to have sex.
Having sex comes with a lot of risks, too.
2006-10-22 05:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready to raise a child for the next 20 years? Deal with a sexually transmitted disease that may destroy your future ability to bear children? Girl, please rethink this serious decision, once done, you can't take it back :-)
2006-10-22 06:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will always be nervous with your first time.
When the time comes, make sure he wears a johnny, and tell him to be really careful with you, and slow, and gentle, if you start feeling unsure, STOP. only do this when you want to!!
2006-10-22 05:44:15 · answer #7 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably are not ready if you are looking for advice so randomly.
Follow your instincts.
2006-10-22 05:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by Style Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him, and talk it over with him, if he truly cares he will understand, and the both of you will experience it much better.
2006-10-22 05:51:47 · answer #9 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep waiting until you are really ready...you will know it when the time is right
2006-10-22 05:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by bertha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋