I threw away my whole life, I mean I list my friends, family, kids,job etc. for a man I thought was my soul mate! I hsve spent the last three years finding out the hard way that his feelings were not the same toward me. Either he purpusly mislead me or he thought he was and got into something he wasn't ready 4! He doesn't seem to care about me anymore. He doesn't tell me he loves me,or want to cuddle or hug, he says that is not him and just because he doesn't doesn'tdmean he doesn't anything. He doesn't like it when I ask questions because he thinks my questions are stupid! He got mad at me for singing along with the music I was playing, I was irritating him. This is the most hurtful relationship I have been involved in Earlier in my life I would have already left him. My problem is I really do love him and this time I can't get myself to walk! How do I find out if he does really care or if it has all been a game? He went through a bitter divorce , won't let me in
2006-10-22 05:39:41 · 6 answers · asked by 2-bossy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm afraid to be alone! I can't even im agine it, As it is I'm hardly functioning! I With what I have already been through I honestley think leaving him would kill me! Have any other ideas!!
2006-10-22 06:14:51 · update #1
You have to find the courage to leave this man. Why would you want to waste your life on someone who does not care about you. You owe it to your self, to only want the best for you. Why would you want someone who is not in love with you? You do not love yourself if you stay in a relationship, that is not making you happy, or that is not fulfilling your needs.
2006-10-22 05:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already know he doesnt feel the same anymore. Maybe it was the challenge that got him going after you in the first place. Then, when you gave up everything for him, there was no longer anything challenging him. It got boring. Love doesnt conquer all. You are not happy with things the way they are now. Are you willing to stay with him despite that?
Have some self respect for yourself. You deserve better.
2006-10-22 12:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The divorce is an excuse. if he loved you, he would express it in actions and words. I had a verbally and mentally abusive ex like that. He was controlling and liked for noone to be happy unless he thought it was at a good time. I left him 17 years a go and never looked back. It took me a long time to regain my self esteem and love myself enough to not let anyone treat me like that; ever again. Now, I have valuable relationships, with mutual respect and love.
2006-10-22 12:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by conniesmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same position but going thru a divorce because of it, get the courage to end your relationship and find that one person who really cares for you and is willing to sacrifice things for you rather the other way around.
You are worth more than being some blokes doormat!
2006-10-22 12:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you should take the walk and do the talk go back to your family they will at least should help you any ways Email me if you want I think i could help more.
2006-10-22 12:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by girly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youll never know the truth unless you walk away from it for a good long while first. Your too close too see the reality, the truth.
2006-10-22 12:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by Sepiatone01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋