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I have a problem I have a boyfriend who I care about but recently I have ben having these feelings for my bestfriend (who is a girl). She and I had slept together once and she mentions it to me a couple times like she has feelings for me. what do I do.

2006-10-22 05:36:58 · 19 answers · asked by girly girl 2 in Family & Relationships Friends

19 answers

go do what u think is right who do u love more ur boy friend or your friend or u can do what my friend does have ur boyfriend and have a girl friend make sure its ok with both of them though

2006-10-22 05:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by lily pad fat =( 1 · 0 0

Hi, ALL BS aside. If you have a boyfriend and you DO have feelings for him, and you also HAVE feelings for a girl, and by feelings I am talking sexual. Then I have to say at the very least you ARE BI-SEXUAL. And no this is not necessarily a bad thing. But it is something that you have to accept.BUT, you are going to have to decide how you want to go. If things are going good with the boyfirned, then why even look anywhere else. stay in the relationship. If not then dump him and go with your girl. OR go both ways, just make sure the boyfriend is aware of whats going on. Oh the girlfriend too. Read up on the subject. It is something that people live with every single day. Good luck.

2006-10-22 12:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0 0

Go for the girl. I know many lesbians and I have read research that suggests that a lesbian relationship is the most fulfilling. Women are more caring and considerate than men, period, if you want a lasting relationship try the girl. If you ever have doubts or start considering relationships with other people it is usually the first sign you should move on.

2006-10-22 12:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by Brixton B 3 · 0 0

Well, my suggestion to you would be this: Forget about sleeping with the best friend. For you it was obviously just something you wanted to experience. Many girls do this, they just don't openly say it. I think you should stick with the boyfriend especially since you have feelings for him. If you do have feelings for your best friend, which you have not indicated on here, then you might want to suggest to your boyfriend that you bring another woman into the bedroom because it's something that you would like to try.

2006-10-22 12:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ask her if she still has feelings for you, I think you like her a lot though. It is hard to continue as friends when you have slept together, why did you stop at once. if it makes sense in your head and your heart agrees then that is the right person to choose, it might be niether one.

2006-10-22 12:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by ponitail 55 5 · 0 0

Only you can decide on having feelings for your best friend. But don't you think it would be best for you to break up with your boyfriend first, because if you don't, then it is going to cause a problem. You need to decide what you want!

2006-10-22 12:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0 0

Both of you are having feeling for the other well you need to let your boyfriend know. Cheating is cheating it doesnt matter if its with the same sex. You need to talk to some one about your feelings. Your next step is to decide who you want to be with.

2006-10-22 12:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0 0

Stay with your boyfriend.

If you guys break up, figure out what way your gonna swing, if you know what I mean.

Then pursue either your bestfriend, or the hot guy outside the club.

2006-10-22 12:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

k so u slept with her is that a problem
but if u 2 did something that u never did before than that is a prblem

2006-10-22 13:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by lilredbunny_20 1 · 0 0

that is something that you are going to have to figure out for yourself. this situation is no different than if it were two girls or two guys. i guess you will have to sit down and figure out which one you have stronger feelings for and who you want to be with. you can't play both sides of the fence, it isn't fair for anyone involved. you will have to choose.

2006-10-22 12:40:28 · answer #10 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0 0

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