They fight every day with bad language
2006-10-22 05:32:15 · 10 answers · asked by Beckerzz(: 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, it's not really your job to make them stop fighting but I know how you feel...you just want it to stop. I think maybe you should try talking to each of them individually about it. Tell them how it is affecting you and your everyday life. They are adults and should know better than to fight in front of their kids. They're being selfish and disrespectful to you. Try telling them how much it hurts you and ask them to get some help. Maybe they don't realize the impact it has on you everyday.
2006-10-22 05:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to put them out of your mind, leave the house if you're old enough for an hour or two, try to do your best to improve YOUR life, like doing your best in school, staying out of legal trouble, finding a part-time job if you're old enough and making some money for yourself...the point is, you have to make your likfe as strong as possible by yourself, because your parents are too occupied with fighting to pay you enough attention. Don't blame them, just accept the responsibility and make your life strong.
You just can't stop them from fighting. It's not your fault, some people just get into this bad habit of fighting. They have to learn to not fight, not have someone teach them. My advice:keep as much to yourself and your life as possible.
2006-10-22 12:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have a heart to heart talk with your mum. Make her realize how bad it is for both of them to be fighting every day. Don't hesitate to tell her how you feel about them too. It takes two to fight so, if your dad starts let her be calm and with time, your dad too will come to appreciate her and both of them will now learn how to tolerate one another. Marriage is all about understanding and tolerance.
2006-10-22 13:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh, my heart goes out to you. I'm sorry you have to witness this. When they are calm, sit them down and tell them both how this is affecting you (cry if you feel like it). My husband and I used to fight alot in front of our kids and they started yelling at us to stop and grow up. It worked and we got help when we realized the damage we were doing. Parent are human too and sometimes very immature and we forget you are there listening.
2006-10-22 12:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you old enough,you can talk to them one time each day,
and ask what is the reason.If you cannot help,ask for a counselor , if they dont want your idea.
Its time for you to move out and prepare your future life w/out them,cuz it will damage yourself,mind and your life forever while you are living with them now untill you can not think,what is wrong with your like with a lot of problem around you.
2006-10-22 12:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by verdance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use bad language around them and tell them this is the role model they are setting for you.
2006-10-22 12:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do but tell them how disturbing this is to you. maybe it will make them stop an think about what they are doing.
2006-10-22 12:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chuck a book at their heads the'll be so confused the'll stop fighting
2006-10-22 12:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by Zoe <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to get divorse
2006-10-22 12:34:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them you dont really care anymore what they do??
2006-10-22 12:37:13 · answer #10 · answered by lurking 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋