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this was the second time he didnt put up the pups
because he left them out they were in the kitchen and there was poop and pee everywhere to be cleaned up
husband denied noticing the poop and pee in the kitchen when he woke up 3 hours earlier
husband stated that he had put the pups up last night...from 12 until 3 am
pup said that there was already pee and poop on the floor last night so why bother...

any opinion would be helpful..i have a habit of taking things personally so i would like to see some other points of view

2006-10-22 05:29:40 · 13 answers · asked by bertha 3 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

btw...it is his idea to have the puppies...
he wants the money from breeding....

2006-10-22 05:41:00 · update #1

yes..he doesnt want to do much around here...he has excuses for why he doesnt have a job (ptsd), work around the house (allergies) etc etc..and this is a common thread in this house...he wants me to do the giving and he wants to be the taker...not fun for me...

2006-10-22 05:43:54 · update #2

13 answers

to avoid problem,i would endeavour to do it myself.at least it would save me the trouble of cleaning up extra mess.

2006-10-22 05:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I understand that almost all folks crate instruct their puppies, however to me, I believe it is fairly imply. They are best to have for while your puppy has been naughty and demands day trip. But to be locked in there for hours on finish is terrible! At night time, you'll maintain a crate for your room and maintain it closed (so he is not tempted to sneak onto the mattress!) Just do that till he will get used to settling down for the night time, after which you'll begin to go away the crate door open. You would additionally segment a facet of your room off and maintain him in there at night time. Just positioned a mattress and a few water and might be a few toys in there (most likely now not loud squeaky toys lol). My puppy sleeps on my mattress and continuously has performed. At four a million/two months ancient, I believe he will have to be ancient sufficient. I believe your proposal is rather well despite the fact that, with the stairs and dog pads. Even despite the fact that he's slumbering in your mattress, you continue to desire a mattress for him too. This is his possess situation wherein he can move to have a holiday from everybody. It's his possess house. Good good fortune!

2016-09-01 00:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Are the two of you in a pattern in your relationship where you ask him to do something and he ignores you? Is this about a larger pattern than a singular event? Do you feel like he doesn't help around the house as much as he should and that you end up doing most of the work? If you answered yes to any of those questions, I think the next question you need to ask yourself is how does this pattern of behavior make YOU feel-honestly about the dynamics of your relationship. Then once you've really been honest with yourself and know what is at the heart of this problem for you, then talk to him and tell him how you feel. Don't sit on it and let there be a 3rd, 4th, 5th incident....bitterness, and resentment, and unspoken words in order to "keep the peace" - will eventually rot away at your marriage and I know you don't want that.

2006-10-22 05:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by paperorplastic 2 · 0 0

It's been my experience that men only see what they want to see. Does he have an area of the house he considers "his'"? If so, I would keep the puppies there until they needed to be put up. I bet he would "notice" then.

2006-10-22 05:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by Jenyfer C 5 · 0 0

You really shud have woken TWO hours earlier and cleaned up the mess... and put the pups in a newspaper-lined room.

Easier sedd than done. I apologise in advance.

2006-10-22 05:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by novembr 5 · 0 0

If he can't finger out how to put puppies up...He won't get to play with puppies...Doesn't appear to be a personal attack. I can tell there are alot of other issues at work here though.

2006-10-22 05:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by Psycomagnet 3 · 0 0

i think u both shud get into an agreement..regarding this pup issue..like u can do it alternatively..ask ur hus 2 put d pups out a day and do the related chores..and u can do it d next day...there shud b a mutual understandment..u can also try talkin 2 him..

2006-10-22 05:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by jumz 2 · 0 0

Oh my God!!! Not the didn't put the pups up!!!
Seriously, it sounds like he just forgot. He obviously doesn't put as much emphasis on this issue as you. I wouldn't take this personal at all.

2006-10-22 05:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by William J 2 · 0 0

if you asked him to do it and he felt that if it were important to you then you should do it, i could understand why he would make all those excuses. who's puppies are they? consider how you would feel if he got something that you may not be interested in and asked you to take care of it. would you want to do it? be considerate, and communicate with him

2006-10-22 05:37:49 · answer #9 · answered by lankytallgirl 2 · 0 0

Tell him to put up the puppies or he's not getting any.

Guaranteed to work.

2006-10-22 05:36:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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