I've been married for 2 years now, and I've never been a really "clingy" person, but my husband is more that way. My husband and I are happy, we have a good sex life, and we are affectionate toward each other all the time, but he feels like we should be more like we were when we first got together--laying on the couch, kissing, (basically making out for a 10 to 15 minutes at a time), etc.? I just wanted to know if this is something most married couples do with daily regularity?
2006-10-22 05:15:44 · 20 answers · asked by missapparition 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We don't make out as much as we used to, but we do find quiet time to lay together and cuddle. Enjoy it now. If or when you have kids, that will wane with time. This doesn't mean we don't love each other - the love is stonger and deeper.
2006-10-22 05:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 17 years, and I have to say that we have gone through phases. Sometimes it cools off a bit related to life stresses, but most of the time my husband still acts like a 17 year old who can't get enough, and that's not just sex. Men want to feel desired too, hence the mini-make-out sessions, makes them feel young. Trust me, once you hit 30 and 40 and beyond, you will do anything to feel young again, to make you forget that you have a fat gut, to forget you have a wrinkles in places you never dreamed of, and to forget that you have a child old enough to be doing the same thing you are now questioning.
2006-10-22 05:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know my husband and I are happy too, but no we don't just make out on the couch anymore. We've been married for 8 years and we have 2 small children and lives to go along with it. There's no time to lay on the couch and "make out" for the sake of making out. Now if we make out it's called foreplay. Not to say we don't cuddle or kiss anymore, we do, but there's no hot and heavy petting to go along with it because it would always lead to sex. And with 2 little kids running around, that could be bad, if you know what I mean.
2006-10-22 05:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all the time but it's nice when we get the chance to. You are still newly married enjoy each other as much as you can, there will come a time when you will have kids and lots of other things that need to be done. I will be married 12 years in June and we still cuddle on the couch and love to spend time together, every chance we can. Relax and be happy and enjoy.
2006-10-22 05:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't want to brag or anything... but YEP. :) Still smooching like kids 11 years & counting. Make out sessions make the world go round!! I count myself fortunate, though, because lots of marriages cool off that way. Kids, finances, just being tired can really take it's toll on the spontaneous physical affection. It's so important, too.
U can initiate it w/ him if u think it's cooling off a little. Most guys like a little aggression from us once in a while. Cheers 2 u both!
2006-10-22 05:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by Rocker Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not really. After 10 years of marriage and two kids, you find that hard to do. However, the other day, my husband smooched me up for about 5 minutes and it really got my blood pumping. It would be nice if he could do a little something like that more often, but I understand that he has alot to do as well and I don't want to smother him.
2006-10-22 05:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by Butterfly Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've been together for seven years, married for five and we still make out. We used to do it and it wouldn't always lead to sex but now it is usually a part of foreplay for us. We still passionately kiss everyday regardless if we makeout or not though. I think it is something most couples do but it does happen less when you've been together for a long time.
2006-10-22 05:23:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 28 years, I'm sorry to say it does wear out. Not go away mind, but its definitely less than it used to be.
And daily? Lord, once the kids come along, where do you get the time, energy and privacy all at once? Give him a little more now, as he needs it, and know that once the kids start walking you can go back to a schedule that's more to your liking
2006-10-22 05:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an interesting question because my marriage is similar to yours, except I'm more like you (not clingy). My wife mentions the same thing about not kissing more.
To answer your question, that type of kissing occurs less and less the longer you're together, married or just dating.
2006-10-22 05:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will love to do that to but am not doing it any more some times i get just a kiss at day, i don't know what it is but i think the wifes are just not into the making out after they got married, is sorry do i really enjoy it
2006-10-22 05:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋