How do one live with oneself while in a marriage with kids and all the rest, when totally in love with some one else. It really hurts.
2006-10-22 04:42:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is a ruff one but you owe it to yourself and your husband to be truthful on this. DO you sacrifice your feelings for your family's, that is something you must decide. But, i can say you also owe it to yourself to be happy and with time all wounds well heel.
2006-10-22 04:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by L@M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have alot on the line. When you say you are in love with someone else I'm not quit sure how far you've gone with this person. Remember you have other lives you are responsible for so decisions you make will also affect their lives. You must make a decision. If this person you say you love is worth losing everything you have then you have to do what you have to do. But once you give up what you have right now (family) you will never get back and there is no guarantee this person you say you are in love with will be there for you once you make the decision. But the hard truth is make a decision. It is unfair to everyone to keep going the way you are.
2006-10-22 05:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by help 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this other man really worth ruining your marriage over? Are you really that unhappy with yoru marriage? Do you want your marriage to work? Have you taken the time to actually work on your marriage? Without knowing all the specifics it is hard to know exactly what is going on that provocked you to start loving another man. If this other man is married then you are really in the wrong. If you don't want your marriage to end I suggest you try to get this man out of your mind and life and get some counseling and be open and honest with yoru husband. he doesn't deserve to be disrespected in this way. I hope you can work this out.
2006-10-22 05:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by hehmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it hurts, pain is a warning mechanism. Do marriage vows mean anything to you? Let your husband go, he's better off without you. I sure wouldn't want somebody who didn't want to be with me fully. And what kind of parent rips their childrens lives apart while professing to love them? Think woman, make every effort to fall in love again with your husband.
2006-10-22 05:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation is a hard one. In the long run following your heart will be the most rewarding one. Its hard having children involved, but will this affect them if you stay with someone your unhappy with. I am sure there is evidence in your actions that your not happy and i know as a kid i could feel when there was something wrong with my mom or dad.Life is to short !!!!!
2006-10-22 04:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by kelliejo0875 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IS the other man free
Do you know how many ask the same ?
and how many of them live to regret throwing away their marriages for that so call love
Think think
2006-10-22 05:03:41 · answer #6 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man oh man.....you need to get out of the marriage if it's not working......it's going to hurt the kids too......so just tell him...and leave.....it's going to hurt all....and it's going to be bad.....so stand up to what you are doing to your husband and kids......get it all out on the table....later heart breaker
2006-10-22 05:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some time we don;t know who our heart is going to fall in love...i think you should tell your husband or get divorce......the one you in love may not want you&kids but at least you will be free.....
2006-10-22 05:10:57 · answer #8 · answered by Jazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO IT VERY CAREFULLY .
YOU DON,T WANT TO HURT THE KIDS
2006-10-22 05:30:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋