cheating how to tell if a female is cheating on you?

Question

there was a ? the other day about cheating and it gave many answers about how to tell if a male is cheating.
My ? is how do you tell if a female is cheating?
They commented on smelling the male organs, but if a woman is excited she is going to smell the same all the time.

Answer 1

When you ask her where she's been and she gets offended, saying "What do you mean where have I been? Don't you trust me?" Also, you'll notice a different coldness toward you and an almost "superior" attitude over you. She'll suddenly talk about the person she's attracted to with great regularity, but she'll never admit to the affair.

Each time you accuse her of fooling around, she'll deflect the conversation right back onto your inability to trust her. She'll even lie about how much she loves you, as long as it gets her past the confrontation.

Once things are nicely set up for she and the other person to go to the next level, she'll end your relationship.

Answer 2

There is no hard, difinitive way to tell if someone is cheating on you. It depends on the type of person you are. I, personally, have a horrible tendency to be paranoid, so I can't trust my gut. But if you normally fully trust someone and you start to feel "off" there's a chance something is off.
I don't agree with screening phone calls, and following, and all of that. Because, if it gets to that point, then well- there's no where to go. When you go to those levels, you're going to find things that bother you no matter what, whether or not they actually cheated.
Though, "they" say that changes in habbits; working late, going out more, different clothes, getting more dressed up for things she didn't use to, emotional distance, decreased sex drive, etc. Those are signs, I suppose.

Answer 3

If I get the feeling that a girl is cheating on me then she probably is so I just say good bye. Once I get that feeling it will stay with me and things won't be the same again so whats the point.

Answer 4

Some women are better at cheating then men. Its a tough one. I would say first and formost is she wearing more make-up when she leaves the house, did she join the gym recently, does she shave more often in "that" area, did she start tanning, is she a little less involved in your affairs, does her best freind avoid you?
These are all signs that there is potentialy another person on her mind.

Answer 5

1) She suddenly loses weight.
2) She buys a lot of new, sexier clothes.
3) She goes out with the "girls" more.
4) She has a new hair cut or hair color.
5) She showers as soon as she gets home -no matter how late.
6) She buys new perfume.

Answer 6

the first thing to look for is eye contact, then a change in the way she usually does things, is she being over attentive to you, if she is it might be because she feels guilty. has her work schedule changed. her appearance, her style of clothing, phone calls where she says it was nothing important. little things that if you where not paying attention that would just fly bye. these are all warning signs

Answer 7

One of the first effects of cheating is guilt, she won't be so free around you, she tends to act more reserved, unlike her ussual talking self, always stay observant for change in character.

Answer 8

I love questions like this. The most simple answer is ask her if she is cheating and if she says shes not then let it go, you cant do anything about it untill you have hardcore proof

Answer 9

I know this is Un-Kool, and the answer sucks, but, If your not married, anything goes. What goes around, comes around. Don't worry about, if she is cheating. By the way, married people don't even think about if their partner is cheating, because their not! I know, marriage is for old people, and you "Young, Cool, Studs", would never think of getting married, so deal with it. Good Luck.

Answer 10

I guess us girls have and advantage over you guys... my experiences have been that she won't want to have sex right after she has had sex with another... people showering as soon as they walk in the door is a sure sign... especially if they dont normallly shower first thing.... hope this helps...