i had a huge crush on dis guy n later realised dat it waz love. even he proposed me n i accepted it aftr confessing my love for him. but ever since i hav accepted his proposal i dunno y he iznt talking 2 me. he is not replying 2 my msgz even. i m missing him like anything. i love him alot. please tell me wat shud i do n how 2 find out wat has actually happened..........
2006-10-22 04:39:00 · 24 answers · asked by sassy_sanjana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe it was a bet.
2006-10-22 07:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he is reconsidering his offer and why. If you have had time invested in one another, he should at least let you know where you stand. If he won't then you know it was better to find out now than later. A lot of times, it is just miscommunication and things can be worked out; but not always the case. Sometimes, people chase after someone so long, that when they acheive their goal, the dream has been accomplished and they move on to another unattainable someone. This person is afraid to committ to someone for their own insecurities.
2006-10-22 04:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by conniesmiles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We humans when we get indulged in crushes,we tend to be very excited and when they propose us we feel that he/she has same feelings and emotions or love towards us.Right.............? But this happens with very few.I mean very few people get real lover but in your case it seems that either he's busy in some work or wants to avoid you.In case u call him and avoids u then u will feel very depressed.It's better that just visit his house and talk to him directly.I think this is a possible solution which will help u...........!
2006-10-22 17:03:37 · answer #3 · answered by hots! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's going throgh a crises, or something. It could be that a family member is sick. Or he could be busy.
Ask him if he's ok, and if he ask why you ask say because he seems distant. If he says somethings wrong, tell him your there for him. Even if everythings OK, maybe he'll realize what he's doing, and stop. And he'll be happy to find that you really care for him.
2006-10-22 04:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to play you. It's time to dump him. He'll probably continue like this, even if you do get married. Do you want to live the rest of your life like this? I don't think so. So it's time to quit playing games and get out of the relationship.
2006-10-22 04:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, check yourself back into the crazy house lady. CRUSH? Maybe he was joking about the proposal...in america we usually date BEFORE we get married...last things last....how big was the ring?
2006-10-22 04:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by Future Mrs. Beasley 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if he is not replying to ur msgs
u can call him & if he is not even attending ur calls then u can approach one of his best freinds as friends know all the secrets, good or bad things in friend's life.
his friend can definitely solve ur prob.
2006-10-22 20:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he could be playing games with you ?, call in and see him and find out just what exactly is going on ??.
2006-10-22 04:44:46 · answer #8 · answered by Richard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait so he proposed to you....as in he asked you to marry him. he was just a crush n you guys wern't dating?????? thats what it sounds like to me.... like u guys are neighborhood friends he didnt know you liked him n he liked you n he just proposed out of the blue n now u dont hear from him anymore. do you even kno his name.... ay chick ur trippin...
2006-10-22 04:43:10 · answer #9 · answered by pisces_dreamer06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he did it as a cruel joke. I think you should try to call him or go see him in person and ask why he is avoiding you.
2006-10-22 04:41:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well 1st of all ..... i have herd of not call after the first date or kiss ... but not after a proposal... so call him *** up and see wuts goin on cause thats weird.... but idn im only 15....
2006-10-22 04:41:31 · answer #11 · answered by JACK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋