Whenever we go out I see other men look at her. I am not jealous, but after a while it does get old. Men eighter flirt with her in store check out lines, or cut gawking stairs at her when we are out. Once in a bar, a guy came up from about four feet with his back to the band on stage and just stood and looked?!? My wife is cute. She is small and petite. She has also had a boob job. I think she is "fine as H&ll." Do other guys have the same problem, and what do they do besides beat the crap out of the gawkers? lol Ladies, what do you think? I'm just a average guy, and this is a seriour question. I am not braging eighter. Please let me know what everyone things. On yea, my wife does not notice a third of what I see. Also I do not think she encourages it by her actions 95 % of the time.
2006-10-22 04:36:23 · 9 answers · asked by krash 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes it used to hapen all the damm time when m,y wife and i used to go out in clubs
2006-10-22 05:15:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No harm in looking I like to say but if it goes beyond that then she is inviting it so you either have to talk to her about it or let others know that she is with you. Fighting is not the recipe for success because with you behind bars things can really get going. Maybe the lady is inviting it on by the way she dresses or doesn't dress. Is she wearing her wedding ring? Does she walk hand in hand with you? Are you with her or just acting like a body guard ready to fight off attackers? If your wife doesn't notice it why do you bother, maybe you are a little paranoid about her thinking that other men are after her. About the other 5% of the time, just what is she doing in that time or maybe this is done while you are checking the crowd for suicide flirters bent on making your wife theirs. Maybe the boob job was too much over the top and now you feel your wife is the main attraction at the big top. Just before I do go, you really should learn to use check spelling because it shows that maybe you are not the brightest crayon in the box and other guys sense it wondering what is she doing with that Bozo, so maybe a makeover for you is in order here, after all you are the one she married so you must have something going for you, but spelling isn't one of them. Sorry but good luck otherwise and, PS. I wasn't one of the guys checking her out.
2006-10-22 04:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. PDQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually gawk back at them until he makes eye contact with me; usually stops after that. It kind of a compliment that others look; atleast u know you have something that turns heads; but I agree it kinda gets old quick.
Also as long as she is straight with ya and not flirting back I wouldn't worry about it..
2006-10-22 04:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by Allen L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful your wife is in love with you AND she's a hottie. Hey, you could have an ugly wife. ;)
Don't be jealous. You can always say to yourself "She goes home with me..."
2006-10-22 04:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cannot contol what other people do but she can limit their actions by dressing more conservatively and not flirting.
2006-10-22 06:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, just feel lucky to huv her as ur wife.. and that also means ur much in trouble if she finds out that guys hitting on her when u go out.. haha.. its upto her if she will entertain them.. if not.. means she really loves u.. and huv more confidence with ur self.. especially when ur with her.. goodluck
2006-10-22 05:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by kenshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, just smile at the wannabe's and put your arm around your babe. Rub it in
2006-10-22 04:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by wudbiser 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are insecure & overly sensitive / jealous...
It does not sound like she encourages any of this ....
You should be proud of her looks and proud of her loyalty....
2006-10-22 05:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be thankful for her, and think to yourself, its me who she comes home with each nite. and let the others just sit at home and wish.
2006-10-22 04:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋