This is about a boy I really like. We have known each other for 10 years, and he has always liked me. About 4 months ago, he told me he liked me and wanted to kiss me, and I said okay. Then when the time came, I just said no because I didn't feel comfortable. He was angry at first, then he said he understood. Then the relationship started to go really well and it became pretty serious. Then I came home from holidays and the school term started. There was another disco, and at this disco he started flirting with another girl. He kissed her. I was SO devastated. Then I pretended to act casual about it, and asked him did he kiss anybody. He said yes. But then he said that he regretted kissing that somebody and that he had thought about me since the disco. I was overjoyed. I told him I really liked him as well. It turned out his FRIEND sent this message, and I felt totally humiliated. Now, the guy and this girl are going out.
i KNOW i should get over it but I cant!! Is there hope?
xoxox
2006-10-22 04:33:52 · 10 answers · asked by xxbaybigurrlxx 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
if u r still hoping for some hopes u r just keeping urself in dark......n there is no logic in this all
whole life u r having
n m sure u can get much much better boyz .....u feel dissapointed as u were serious aboutt him but u r having mind also i'm sure..
sweetheart ..........don't bother..wait for someone true n just meant for u to come to ur life
n remember its not time that matters
its care n love that takes over everything
so be bold n do in what u r comfortable
2006-10-22 06:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by neha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No there is no hope, you need to get over him quick. For him to kiss another girl just says that he's a player. He is not a one woman man. Don't settle for less girl and don't compromise for any guy even if you've known him for a long time. You deserve much better than him and he is the only guy that's going to like. Don't sweat, move on and don't let him know you still have feelings for him. Major mistake because then guys will think you're vulnerable. Good Luck.
2006-10-22 12:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by Justice 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like the only reason why this guy is with the other girl is because he prob thinks you dont like him and to make you jealous.
Let him know how you feel........ doing so might bring the 2 of you together again and then he can dump his girlfriend and be with you.
2006-10-22 11:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by hotteenick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i realy dont understand that if ur rltnshp is for abt 10 yrs then why this kiss matters in between. if he started flirting other girl then u too stop thinking abt him, and go for any othr boy who relly is intrsted in u but not in kissing and all othr stuffs. this is my view. but go according to ur heart. what ur heart says follow it. ok.
2006-10-22 11:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by cool_abdul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suspect that you know that he is misogynistic, since you mentioned that he was angry when you didn't kiss him. he wanted to hurt you to get revenge. now, you must ask yourself if you want to continue to give this sick idiot pleasure by continuing to be hurt. if you realize how you're being used, perhaps you can easily forget him, and learn something from this experience.
2006-10-22 11:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Replace "I can't" with "I am not willing to."
You can and you will.
You can't "make" anyone love you. Why would you want to anyway?
Wouldn't you rather be picked by someone than with them because they think there's no other option for them?
2006-10-22 13:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO. There wil be more boys and more disco,s though,believe me.Your first instinct is usually correct.Listen to your instinct.
2006-10-22 11:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by april showers 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
chant hare rama krishna
2006-10-22 12:24:08 · answer #8 · answered by Conservative 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Onlt if you get over it.
2006-10-22 11:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by voodootex2u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't thinks so... u can find a better guy!!! get over him!
2006-10-22 11:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋