I am going to get a free two hour massage after school on monday, and a treatment, at my moms friends house, she's a massage therapist in training, and heals things. Because I have been having leg and back problems, actually doesn't have to do with going through puberty said my doctor. Anyway, Not sure what it is. But anyways. I have to get down in my underwear and I am afraid to get an unwanted erection infront of her. What can i do to preven this from happing? Thanks!
2006-10-22 04:18:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
You probably will get an erection, but...therapists are trained to be professional. You stay focused on something non-sexual, like baseball or your GrandMother.
I really wouldn't worry about it; it happens to all of us!
2006-10-22 04:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Many men do get erections during massage. Massage therapists are trained to ignore this and just get on with the massage. However, I can understand how this might make you feel uncomfortable. Either tell your mom 'thanks - but no thanks' or speak to the therapist before your massage about your concern. It depends how your relationship is with both of them.
I would suggest you offer to see another person in her massage class - perhaps she can set that up for you.
To be honest, I think this is rather thoughtless of both of them - and it's a little unprofessional of the student to offer to work on the underage son of her friend, particularly in her own home rather than a proper place of business - it's really a recipe for trouble.
If you do go ahead with it, just remember that erections are natural, and do not necessarily mean you are sexually attracted to the therapist. Even if you were, it would by HIGHLY inappropriate for the masseur to do anything about it. A good masseur will either move on to a different muscle area until the erection subsides, or will just leave the room for a few minutes to let you rest.
2006-10-22 05:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has been to school for massage therapy then she will know that this sometimes occurs. It's natural to become aroused when been touched especially at your age. If she is truly a professional and you do get an erection then she will just ignore it and continue with the massage. Try thinking of other things when she is giving you the massage like your paper due in English tomorrow or what's for dinner. But most of all just relax and enjoy the massage. They are a treat and you will be amazed at how invigorating they can be.
2006-10-22 04:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by MellyK1234 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a trained therapist she will be working on helping you with your health issues. But yeah, you might get an erection. You'll start the massage on your stomach, and then she will have you turn over. If you have an erection at that time, then ask for a few seconds of privacy when she asks you to turn over to try to tame that monster. If you start feeling yourself aroused while on your back, then you can try thinking of dead smelly cats. But don't worry, she'll ignore it if you have one. She's a professional. And it will feel great!
2016-05-21 22:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To stop getting unwanted wood down in your underwear, try keeping your mind busy thinking of anything other then sexy things which should help stop you from popping up !! And if this fails and you get a big erection just try and ignore it and I'm sure the women doing the massage will try to as well.
Just chill and I'm sure you will be fine....Try wearing baggy shorts like b.ball sorts etc.
2006-10-22 05:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON"T be ashamed of the hardon if you get one. Yes it might happen, but so what ????? Again, SO WHAT???? No shame in being a male. Get over it!!! A professional masseuse or masseur will know THIS COMES WITH THE TERRITORY.
You'd be much more ashamed if you FARTED while she massaged you.
I don't like the idea of this lady massaging a young fellow like you. Really seems to me that SHE GETS OFF on touching younger guys. this is immoral. In Muslim countries, she would only be allowed to massage women. And they're right. You should not strip down to your drawers in front of a strange woman. That's why I won't go to female doctors or let female nurses see me ever. It's humiliating & immoral. You should only let a man massage you - if it's on the level. And that's that.
2006-10-22 06:28:00 · answer #6 · answered by blackbird 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if the massage causes you to become aroused and erect, don't give it a second thought. even if you ejaculate, most trained massage givers are aware of the possibility.
just about every time i go for a massage, i end up with a semi or total erection. i've had one or two ladies make comments like
i see you're enjoying this or don't try to fight it sir.
bottom line-----dont worry!
2006-10-22 04:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all going to depend on the therapist! Some are very professional and will ignore it totally and those who are not will more than likely help out with the problem! It will be your choice at that moment!
2006-10-22 05:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
First I have to say, 2 hours is a long message. most are around 30 to 60 min. As far as your concern, most allow a sheet or towel around you, but that may not help the problem either. I would advise you to think 'baseball' but when you have one you are to relax, in most cases it relaxes you so much you will fall asleep. so maybe if you think about relaxing more than worry, this may help
good luck
2006-10-22 04:23:21 · answer #9 · answered by vickieski2001 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you won't beable to help it. i'm sure she's seen it happen before...and you never know!! she might like it and you might get the best 2 hours massage of your life.....if' you get what i mean
2006-10-22 13:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by don't mind me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋