im 16 and my girlfriend is 15 we have been dating for almost 8 months...i know for a fact that im in love with her..however even though she says that she is in love with me..i just really dont think that she is...it seems like everything that she does that i dont like hurts soo bad..when she takes to long to call its like i get a feeling in the bottom of my stomach and its the same feeling that i used to get with my last relationship in which i was in love...i dont wanna feel this way anymore even though i still wanna be with her i dont know if i wanna be "soo" in love with her like i am now...because its just too painful and i cant seem to concentraye on anything but thinkin about her...i dont wanna break up or "take time off from the relationship" because thats just gonna make it even worse for me...so if anyone has any suggestions then please help...
2006-10-22 04:04:40 · 5 answers · asked by Morris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your so young and I 'm sure you feel this is love. When your feeling bad about the situation you must tell this person what they are doing that hurts your feelings. When love is mutual each person will make changes so the other feels more secure about the relationship. Real love is a give and take. If changes do not take place to help comfort the other than that is not love. Being so young it takes time and practice. Usually when your young (even older) what you may think is love is only hanging on because the fear of rejection. Nobody likes it but sometimes rejection is natures way of moving you on to something better and more meaningful. Ask yourself and be totally honest to your self what is it that keeps you wanting this relationship. Alot of times people discover it is the fear of rejection and being alone. It may not be love at all.
2006-10-22 04:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE NOT IN LOVE YOU ARE OBSESSED.THIS WILL BE A LIFE LONG PROBLEM UNLESS YOU SEEK HELP TO CONTROL IT.
2006-10-22 11:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else to love...
2006-10-22 11:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Your heart has a mind of its own.
2006-10-22 11:06:53 · answer #4 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time
2006-10-22 11:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by elainecynthia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋