Often people tend to seek out the same kind of person, time after time, especially if there was something about an abusive relationship that appealed to them. #1, try looking for people in a different place. #2, consider dating out side your own ethnic background, age, or geographical area (if that doesn't conflict with your own beliefs) #3, look for someone with similar interests and beliefs, moral standards. #4, ask around and see if you can find out something about the guy before you commit to a LTR with him. And finally, ask youurself, "Am I attracted to this guy JUST because he was looked or acted like the last guy I dated?" If so.. red flag. Good luck, hon
2006-10-22 03:30:52
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answer #1
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answered by Dat MrE Guy 2
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I dont think your doing anything wrong! But dont be in a rush to find that "special" person go out with your friends and have a laugh, you will eventualy find the man of your dreams. Its like men can smell when a girl is looking for a relationship, its like thier animal instinct, thats why the dnt get involved. He'll come around, dont worry.
2006-10-22 10:26:15
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answered by cherri 2
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You need to try looking in a different place to find a man. If you keep meeting them in bars or clubs you will meet only the guys who like to go to bars and clubs. These guys usually don't appreciate a good woman when they have one.
There are good guys out there. Try to be patient and look around for a while. You may be able to find one if you look in a different place.
2006-10-22 10:28:43
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answered by physandchemteach 7
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Try looking around and I’m sure that’s a nice boy who loves you, but being shy, he cannot tell you.
2006-10-22 10:35:09
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answered by z z 1
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You're just very unlucky. I'm sure you'll find the right guy, it will just happen one day. Good luck. :)
2006-10-22 10:24:35
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answered by Tigger girl 2
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Sounds like you need to be more selective. Where are you meeting these guys??? Do you go to church?? Try it!!!
2006-10-22 10:24:43
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answered by winona e 5
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iam still looking for the right woman
2006-10-22 10:30:46
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answered by Anonymous
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u shouldnt be too nice.....if we find a girl whose too nice... and we arent ready for a relationship....then we will run all over you or do what we want......its not a nice thing...its just how we do when we are young....
2006-10-22 10:27:23
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answered by META-4-RIC 4
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