He loves me too much and I liked him, but he's too obssesed with me.I don't want to hurt his feelings and I don't know what to do when he'll ask me if I love him.
2006-10-22 03:12:40 · 4 answers · asked by Chunni 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him you don't feel the same way, and that you're sorry but it's time to move on. He'll ask why..and then you tell him the truth, you love him too much to quickly or whatever, or he's too obsessed just like you said, and it's better that I don't pretend and hurt your heart anymore than it is now. So have a little pow-wow with him, and make him understand that you don't have the same feelings, and you don't want to pretend with him and be unhappy. As for him, just let him know there are others that will truly love him, it's just not you. Gotta ease the transition as a heartbreak can seriously do things to people.
2006-10-22 03:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way you can NOT hurt his feelings. Just be honest with him, and do it right away. Leading him on is not fair and will hurt him more. It will be better that he sees you are breaking up with him and you DONT have someone else, rather than waiting til you want to be with someone else and he thinks thats the reason why.
Just remember to treat him like you would want to be treated.
It's hard, but worth it in the end.
2006-10-22 03:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by dcrobinson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off be sure you want to break up, maby you can talk to him and get him to stop being so obsessive. If all else fails then there is no easier way of breaking up with someone then telling them straight to their face. DON'T do it but phone,text or e-mail cause thats just cowardly.
2006-10-22 03:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by cherri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM THE TRUTH!!! You will hurt him more if you carry on like this.
2006-10-22 05:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋