i don't want any rude comments...i am crazy in love with this guy and he knows it? he is bored of me or atleast starting to
? i know that i have let the relationship go down hill by giving him everything he has ever wanted....now HOW do i make him go crazy again and make him feel good? i know guys like a chase...how can i be that mysterious chase for him once again?
2006-10-22 03:07:11 · 13 answers · asked by ...i <3 Xavi... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You cannot "make" someone love you..
You have done everything you can and now it is up to him..
You have done your part perfectly..
His failure to love is not your fault...
2006-10-22 04:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose how long you have been with him is important. at some point the chasing and mystery will stop and the day to day relationship begins. Maybe he is scared of having an everyday relationship? All relationships need excitement, even if it isnt at the same intensity as when you first met. Maybe booking a secret night away for an evening of fun? What about acting out a fantasy he likes? Good luck!
2006-10-22 03:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In truth what endures the test of time is mental attraction. A bright and intelligent mind is very attractive, far too many people do not spend enough time on working their most important muscle, the one between their ears. Physical attraction can cause a fleeting attraction but once you have landed the prey, sooner or later the thought of a new and more stimulating challenge takes over. You want him to be bewitched with you ? Make him proud of you, stretch yourself and make yourself worthy. Blackmailing him by being so needy is a total turn off.
2006-10-22 03:17:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to step back a bit. Next time he asks you out, tell him you can't make it but don't say why. Just be mysterious.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Now, if you want to play games, send yourself a small bouquet of flowers (from a florist) and have the florist write something on the card like, " Thanks for a great time..." or "Just because you're you!"
Make sure the flowers get delivered at a time when you know he'll be there to see it.
He'll be so jealous...
2006-10-22 03:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 19:02:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him that with or without him you're independent some guys needs to feel needed......
Do little things that will make him stop and check whats going
Go out more with the girlfriends and spend more time on your self
Wear more appealing clothes he will definitely notice that one
If he asks you out tell him your busy or you will call him to confirm if you will be available
2006-10-22 03:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by tutsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have said is what the BF wants. Have you ever thought about what you want in a relationship?
Please talk to him & let him know you want to spice thing up.
Also let him know how you think the relationship is going.
2006-10-22 03:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by ancestorhorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a two way street. You maybe in love with him but he isnt with you.
Do you really want this relationship to continue like this? What does he give to you?
Have some pride you deserve to be teated better than that
2006-10-22 03:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by multiflowercolour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be enjoying having you chase after him...for now. But, if he is not willing to play, too, then it might be time to consider chasing a more receptive guy.
2006-10-22 03:10:14 · answer #9 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest u get into things for yourself. don't let your whole world revolve around him. start doing things without him and for him and see if he starts seeing you differently. nobody wants to be someones whole world. it alot of pressure. and if it doesn't work out then u have a life of your own.
2006-10-22 03:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋