2006-10-22 01:48:18 · 21 answers · asked by Angel eyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
To make themselves feel better about breaking up with you......its always a lie tho cos if you weren't the problem they wouldn't be dumping you in the first place would they?
2006-10-22 01:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by cheekimadam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In most cases, it is an effort not to hurt the other party anymore than is absolutely necessary. They are trying to be kind, not trying to devestate you. If, for instance, you had a personality quirk that just grated upon the other person's nerves. They may not be willing to tell you that your "quirk" is what is driving them away, but would rather place the blame upon themselves instead.
2006-10-22 01:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by Plain_Common_Sense 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably for one of 2 reasons. They are correct, it's their choice, or 2, they don't want to hurt your feelings. Usually when it gets to that point ..mostly the ladies, have talked to their partner about the reasons they are unhappy, but they didn't listen or just didn't care, therefore it's easier to take blame, then to go over the same arguments again.
2006-10-22 01:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
several possible reason
1- try and let the other person down easily and spare their feelings
2- they have noticed shortcomings in themselves or their views on relationships
3- they have no logical reason that is mature and doesn't make them look like slime so they use it as a cop out
2006-10-22 01:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by vicolstravnos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're trying to be sweet and not cruel. They're not sure the best way to let you down. They want the relationship to end, and most go the easiest route to do it.
2006-10-22 01:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by blueeyeskenai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If one person feels it's time to move on.
Change of scenery.
It is the other person.
They don't want to do the "forever" thing.
2006-10-22 01:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we try to leave a door open to visit back every noe or then and try to save your feelings a little
2006-10-22 01:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by jabbernaut_1955 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its probably the truth !!! the only way you going to
know for sure, is when you say it to somebody !!
2006-10-22 01:52:30 · answer #8 · answered by landgirl60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause it is them either there are not happy with themselves or you aren't the mate they where looking for.
2006-10-22 01:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it really is YOU. It's a cop out...the person would rather blame themselves than blame you and hurt your feelings.
2006-10-22 01:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by Phil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋